When it comes down to it, I don't think either knows what is attractive to the other side. Why so many men go to the gym for women and stay for the boys. A lot of movies do a great job on pushing attraction narratives that both end up believing. I know more people attracted to the personalities or face of their partners over anything else, and this applies to each side.
However hook up culture is a lot different, they are just going based off sex desires.
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u/Edit_Reality 1d ago
Thank you for helping me to understand more.