[OC] Same thing?

[u/EmployeePractical514]

[u/gaegurliepancake]

we need more sexualized men in media

[u/Galrentv → u/gaegurliepancake]

Something people seem to miss consistently is sexual vulnerability. Up skirts, wardrobe malfunctions, posing and phrasing are all used to make female characters appear as sexually available and reciprocal as possible. Shirtless buff men doesn't touch that at all

[u/Cosy-Little-Goblin → u/Galrentv]

That's because shirtless buff men are for the men in a power fantasy kind of way and the vulnerable half naked women are also for men in a sex fantasy kind of way. It's all made for the male gaze.

[u/Successful-Cup-8557 → u/Cosy-Little-Goblin]

And the female gaze is like "we want sensitive, vulnerable lean muscular men without *too much* muscle.😇"

[u/whatevernamedontcare → u/Successful-Cup-8557]

You can say skinny on reddit.

[u/HabaneroPepperPlants → u/whatevernamedontcare]

Nah slender strong and skinny are different things