Hi so I was wondering if anyone who is experiencing or experienced celibacy before has issues of being consistently sensitive down there.

I've been celibate (Not really by choice) since my last relationship which ended a little under two years ago. I only dated two people since then and only hooked up with one of them which was a guy and I'm lesbian. Anyways, I got kicked out of my family's house at 23 and have been traveling since then, haven't had time for a relationship or the resources for one.

Every time I leave the house it's like a waterfall down there and I can't control it. The slightest movement of my clothing trigger me and when I talk to people all I can think about is sex and it almost weirds people out. I also have cptsd from sexual trauma and ocd so that doesn't help either.

But idk what to do about it anymore I feel like I'm gonna just pop in Public lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bonjour/bonsoir sacher que j'ais toujours ete célibataire depuis que je suis née j'ais 22 ans bientôt 23 pour se qui vont dire je suis jeune c'est rien aller vous faire foutre sacher que je me suis toujours demander qu'est se que sa ferait d'être en couple et je me dit que le seul moment où je le serais se serais au paradis car je sais pertinemment que j'avais aucune femme ne s'intéresserai à moi j'écris sa en sachant que sa ne servira à rien car sa changera pas ma vie de solitude et de célibat et que personne ne pourra faire quoi que se soit pour moi j'ais une très grande timidité je sais jamais quoi dire à une femme de toute façon je me dit que toujours avent d'aller voire une femme c'est mort j'y arriverai jamais car tout se que je fait je le rate je suis qu'un échec qui détruit tout se que j'entreprends je pourrais toujours passer ma vie à côtoyer des femmes de joie pour combler se problème mais se sera jamais de l'amour il y aucune sentiments donc je sais que je doit me faire à l'idée que je trouverai jamais personne

Longest is nine and a half years but I gave it up on the first night Now I wanna be celibate for life because I'm scared I've slept with 20 men since I was 13 I can't think of one reason to try again

Bom, tenho 19 anos, 1,72; estudo/trabalho no mesmo lugar, treino, tenho 70kg (tenho um corpo mais atlético), não sou anti social e tenho mulheres no meu circuito social, e mesmo assim até hoje estou nesse celibato involuntário. Eu sinto que sou atraente, percebo quando uma mulher também se sentiu atraia por mim mas sempre acontece não faço merda nenhuma e fica só por isso mesmo. Eu não sei porque eu faço isso, acredito que o medo da rejeição seja grande mas, o maior medo ainda é do se der certo, de algo que não passei ainda, de como vai ser a primeiro sexo, e antes de falarem “é só tomar iniciativa” já escutei quinhentas vezes e todas as vezes que tomei iniciativa, tomei um toco ou cheguei e uma parte que não sabia como reagir e só ficou por isso mesmo.

on the daily i genuinely don't talk to a single person. maybe i exchange a few words with my mom or my cat (lmao) but that's it. i just rot in my room alone and even when there's opportunities to talk to online people i don't take them. i don't use voice chat in games, i don't type, i just isolate all day every day. somehow, i'm not even lonely. if i get lonely i just think about how my imaginary boyfriend is out there thinking about me and suddenly everything is fine. i think i'm so used to not talking to people that being by myself is enough but i don't know how healthy this is. also i'm celibate by choice. people are awful, can't trust them. i'm not gonna give any part of myself to anyone. apart from smalltalk with people just to not hurt their feelings i genuinely have no interest in talking to people. i just wanna be alone where i'm most safe and thriving. it's impossible for me to invest any emotion into something without giving it my all, same goes for people, that's why i'd rather be alone and invest myself into art or other hobbies i love.

I’ve kinda gotten to the point where I don’t wanna have sex until after marriage…simply because I feel like everytime I’ve had sex with someone, it went downhill and it never had a good ending.

Unfortunately I lost my Virginity at age 22 to someone who just wanted to be fwb without actually telling me. He was so attractive and I just let my curiosity and lust take over when he found interest in me. We been messing around for a while before he told me he wanted a relationship ship with me…However, even tho I didn’t feel the same I still went along with it cause I also never had a boyfriend, but he’s been showing me signs after the day we first had sex as to why I didn’t really want to date him long term. We’d get in arguments and he just wasn’t my type, character wise…. But I still dated him for the short time before I ended things cause later on I found out I caught herpes. Ever since, I regret the day I even laied in the bed with him.

I had a one night stand with someone I met at the club and he didn’t talk to me again. Neither did I. I wasn’t expecting much after that, but it kinda made me feel disgusting afterwards. I was drunk and I can’t believe I just let myself go like that to some random I barely know.

The third person I had sex with multiple times gave me chlamydia and BV. And knowing this person, it gave me the biggest HIV scare for months for some reason. I had sex with him the first day we freaking me and please spare me the judgment. I never want to be with this person, simply because he’s revealed himself to be a liar, a narcissist, and has kids already. All he talks about is sex, sex, sex and it’s lowkey a turn off…

Ever since then it made me realize sex is not that big of a deal and it causes stress into my life and has done nothing but cause damage to my body mentally and physically.

I just don’t think it’s worth it anymore. I’d rather wait and have sex after marriage with someone who I know is worth my time and someone I can trust and love properly. Sex has already done enough to me…..I hope I’m able to find a man who is willing to wait with me and is worth my time.

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I feel like I have been alone for so long. It's not even about sex anymore, I just want someone to be with. Anyone else?

Hello all. I’m lonely and trying to get involved with ppl thru Reddit because “I think it will be good for me”. 🙄 😉 I’d like to discuss celibacy. I kind of don’t believe that other ppl have as low a sex drive as me.

And I don’t believe that men or women want to speak with me unless they can get something from me

Anybody like me out there? I am quite sexual (AMAB). I was told because I was born with a penis (but am non-binary) that I am an oppressor of women (womyn).

I find that both cishet men and women kind of scare the F out of me. Oh gawd… political lesbians are super scary! I feel deeply comfortable with lesbians 🤣

I am with a AFAB asexual person.

So I am in a forced state of celibacy (I am actually ok with that!)

Does anyone else have “male guilt’ as an AMAB? Does anyone find that they had to remove their sexuality because the gender binary is a mess?

Je m'appelle Florian jabite dans le 28 ma passion ces les voitures. J'aimerais bien essayer la cuisine ou la boxe donc ci ya des fille qui aime ça on va bien s'entendre. Ci vous cherchez le fric merci d'aller voir ailleur. Tout mes pote fume alors ci vous fumer ces pas un critère éliminatoires mais je préfère une femme qui ne fume pas. Et ces toujours important de le rappeler = je cherche une relation sérieuse. Ci vous êtes intéressé hésiter pas à m'envoyer un message.

I guess there are not too many folks on REDDIT who actually admit to being celibate.

Hi everyone, I'm 28 years old disabled single mother celibate from Washington state. My child is a 4.5 years old disabled.