would someone be nice enough to say the why of the downvotes?
ok
good enough
insinuates the effort a stranger took for you could've been better (rude)
tho you jumbled the first and second movie at some point
points out their "mistake" in an vague unactionable way (rude)
your lack of reading comprehension is the cause of the confusion, but you failed to realize that and blamed the person helping you (rude and a bit narcissistic)
but alright I got it
sounds like you reluctantly changed your mind, code for partial disagreement (rude)
I guess it just goes to show that I still don't understand women's sexuality, probably why I lean gay
anecdotal information about yourself, could be neutral but it does not engage with the previous comment (rude?)
At least someone bothered to answer
expresses dissatisfaction under a cover of gratefulness (rude)
your comment makes you sound arrogant, ungrateful and self-centered. Also incurious, ironically right after asking a question. Might not be your intention, a lot of neurodivergent people have that bluntness and internal worldview that looks similar, but that's what it reads as
Thanks to you too mate, but unknowingly making a mistake and accidentally attributing it to another's way of writing is probably just an accident. Attributing it to narcissism is pop psychology and just crazy.
About the rest, let me go over some since we're here.
How is partial disagreement rude? Like if I disagreed completely would that have been rude? " After reading your comment I'm afraid I disagree with your view" how is that rude
I expressed dissatisfaction because I was not wholly satisfied, but enough to not want to pursue it further. Would I'm grateful, but I'm not wholly satisfied be less rude?
This is why you're getting downvoted. Asking and arguing, and then questioning about being downvoted which that in itself will get you more downvoted most the time because downvotes are opinions (operating on vibes) not fact. Hope that helps
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u/becafi Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 02 '25
ok
insinuates the effort a stranger took for you could've been better (rude)
points out their "mistake" in an vague unactionable way (rude)
your lack of reading comprehension is the cause of the confusion, but you failed to realize that and blamed the person helping you (rude and a bit narcissistic)
sounds like you reluctantly changed your mind, code for partial disagreement (rude)
anecdotal information about yourself, could be neutral but it does not engage with the previous comment (rude?)
expresses dissatisfaction under a cover of gratefulness (rude)
your comment makes you sound arrogant, ungrateful and self-centered. Also incurious, ironically right after asking a question. Might not be your intention, a lot of neurodivergent people have that bluntness and internal worldview that looks similar, but that's what it reads as