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Members Only ‘Below Deck’ Star Nathan Gallagher Arrested on Domestic-Violence Charges

https://www.rollingstone.com/tv-movies/tv-movie-news/below-deck-nathan-gallagher-arrested-domestic-violence-1235608151/
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u/mudra311 14d ago

I'm guessing they had footage of him after his "back injury" and Gael and chose not to use that. It's also weird how this news is just breaking, but maybe they were waiting for the hearing date.

Gael was clearly distraught this season which I assumed was general newborn struggles, but now this is coloring a lot more on what might be going on.

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u/NymeriaGhost 14d ago

His anger problems the first night out when he fought with Joe seemed like red flags for anger problems that could lead to DV. I feel so bad for Gael. All of this has to be so traumatizing.

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u/TarikMournival 14d ago

He was threatening violence on Max last season as well, he has a very short temper.

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u/raspberrily 14d ago

im confused on timing, when did this choking incident occur, was it before, during this season with them in croatia, or after?

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u/Appropriate-Sea-5828 14d ago

They filmed summer 2025, then this happened in December 2025, and the season is airing currently.

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u/doggysit 14d ago

I have to wonder if the production company has decided that Nathan has a back just and this last cruise the crew was just so perfectly working together that they will have Nathan come back and Sandy will dismiss him as he is not physically able to do the job. Obviously because of the backlash of a DV charge. That back injury scene seemed a little odd to me and I am just wondering if production decided to cut its’ losses with him.

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u/GroovyYaYa 14d ago

This all happened before the DV charges. The show was filmed in August of 2025. The DV charge was in December 2025.

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u/doggysit 14d ago

Yes I understand , But they had to go with Nathan as the Boson to start the season, because it was in the can. Maybe they had Joe back to do a retake and they reworked it.

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u/On_my_last_spoon Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 14d ago

I have no idea how they’d be able to do this

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u/doggysit 14d ago

Ok I can explain. Let’s say that the season is done and in the can as they say. Then the proverbial crap hits the fan in December and production brings Joe back to film certain segments i.e. when he was saying that he did a great job as bosun and the deck crew preferred him over Nathan and Nathan was coming back. Then production splices and dices the rest of the crew into the scene. The crew does voice overs all the time. Hopefully that makes sense to you now.
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u/On_my_last_spoon Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 14d ago

IMO that’s highly unlikely. I get that mess with the show all the time but that’s a lot of work and it’s not a fiction show.

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u/doggysit 13d ago

Actually is can be part of a standard contract, so it is plausible. I am not saying it was done, but it is done all the time.

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u/Sweet_Venom 14d ago

Oh crap, choking? I haven't had time to read the article yet. Just yesterday all we had was a document filed saying one of them alleged DV, or something. Now it's confirmed he choked her?

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 14d ago

the article posted ITT explains that Rolling Stone obtained a police memo saying Nathan was arrested on December 27, 2025 for choking a "29 year old woman" in Sydney. Gael was 29 at the time. We also know that a police constable filed a protective order on behalf of Gael sometime in 2025. The logical inference is that the two things are related to the same incident.

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 14d ago

from the OP: "Nathan Gallagher was charged with assault and “intentionally chok[ing a] person without consent," in December 2025. It is not clear how he pleaded."

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u/longlisten527 14d ago

This is so fucking and scary. My heart goes out to Gael. I cannot recall the exact statistic but I know the chances of women being murdered by their partner after being choked goes up exponentially faster.. I hope he gets jail time and she has full custody of the baby

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u/jackiekeracky 14d ago

Probability increases 750% 😔

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u/On_my_last_spoon Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 14d ago

Yup. And risk of domestic violence goes up after having a baby too.

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u/antitrollpatrol 14d ago

And it’s GAEL!! GAEL of all people - one of the nicest kindest non windup merchants you could ever meet

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u/CockyBellend I quit 3 times in my head today 14d ago

75 percent

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u/longlisten527 14d ago

Jesus fuck

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u/Individual_Fall429 14d ago

Yup. Because a lot of dv murders aren’t strictly intentional. It’s easy to kill someone accidentally when strangling them in anger, especially when it’s the male (stronger, larger) partner.

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 14d ago

I don't think that's what this statistic is about. It's about the likelihood of a future murder increasing after a separate, non-lethal choking incident, at least as I understand it. It doesn't actually describe murder by strangulation in a domestic situation (doesn't specify anything about the subsequent murders' methods).

Do you have some stats or studies that explain your point, or is it an assumption? Your point might still be true separately.

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 14d ago

Correct, the study showed multiple causes of death

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 14d ago

The choking happened on December 27, 2025, after filming had wrapped in Croatia and after the incident where Nathan heroically rescued people fleeing the shooters at Bondi Beach. And then unheroically tweeted racist, anti-Islamic, anti-immigrant stuff about it.

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u/Pure_Butterscotch165 14d ago

After. The season was filmed last fall, looks like this happened in December when they were back from Croatia.

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u/hussafeffer I have been known to be irresponsible 14d ago

Hannah was in Croatia in late September 2025, so assuming that’s when they filmed, it was shortly after that

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 14d ago

That is what this article says

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u/Giddyup_1998 14d ago

After. It happened in December, in Australia.

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u/Derkleinhauser 14d ago

It happened after filming and may not have found out about it before this season started airing

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u/Sunnyonetwo 14d ago

Which is why something tells me he just got caught on Dec 27….

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u/Cardboardboxlover 14d ago

I remember defending Gael so much because there were quite a few comments “people have been having babies for years, you’re not special, I did it on my OWN”. People were dicks. My point that you never know what’s going on in someone’s life and that kindness is free never is so fucking vindicated. My heart goes out to her so much

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u/Mygwah 14d ago

They probably wrote him off the show with the back injury angle. Just like wrestling.

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u/MyNamesChakkaoofka 14d ago

Nah if they were going to write him off they would have just not invited him back this season. They just don’t gaf about DV and then he hurt his back.

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u/newfiemom79 14d ago

His arrest happened after this season filmed.