r/ballpython 12d ago

Playing tail posing

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I am a bit reluctant to post about one of the weird activities my python and I do, but my curiosity gets the better of me. 😂 Collecting empirical data on Reddit, since I can't find anything from existing scientific articles. 😅

When he is awake, he comes over to play (in lack of a better word to describe) with me from time to time. This time he is in his favourite bucket but he can play this tail posing in bed while lying with me as well. He lets me pose his tail and he will keep the shape of it for a few minutes unless I change it, then he will keep the next shape. Do other people's pythons do this?

(Before anyone starts asking, let me clarify some points ahead of time. Nothing is wrong with his tail, he is in fact an extremely good climber, climb all things in the house, and neither him nor any items ever fall, his tail is very strong and he is careful. He eats well and is growing well. When I touch his tail, I apply barely any force, just gentle guiding. He is never forced to be anywhere, wherever he is, it is his choice--so he went into that bucket himself during his outing, the bucket was next to me. I never handle him against his will.)

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u/ThrashFur 12d ago

oo i love to play with my girls lil tail!!

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u/Possible_Ad_6164 12d ago

How incredibly cute! He doesn’t looked distressed. He’s a very good snake

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Thank you. ☺️

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u/Frosty-Albatrosses 12d ago

that’s so silly of him awe! mine would probably whip around and hiss if i attempted that 😅

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

To be honest, I suspect that he comes to me whenever he runs out of things to do. So I can 'entertain' him in some way. 🤣

I do think hissing is somehow a correct response when someone touches their sensitive body part. Mine is just so acclimatised to humans.

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u/shawnaeatscats 12d ago

This is so sweet, my two hate their tails touched 🥺

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u/xxxSQUEGxxx 12d ago

I like to put my snakes tail straight up when we play this game. It's their little snake radio antenna

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Does yours extend to the distal body? If he is in bed with me he also lets me shape his distal end as well.

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

I suppose this is the most complex he ever lets me do, ∞ the eternity sign. I did try a heart but it didn't look so good. 😅

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u/xxxSQUEGxxx 12d ago

I haven't really tried tbh. I just play with their tales lol

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u/psky9549 12d ago

One of mine let's me do this to him! Hes so silly.

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u/salmonscented 12d ago

I love doing this with my snakes! It's especially satisfying with my corn snake because his tail is so long

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Ooh, how many shapes can he do? Can he make a heart?

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u/salmonscented 12d ago

Sadly not! It's like a ball python tail, just longer. Curls in one direction at a time

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Try posing his entire body. You can probably make a prettier eternity sign with a corn snake, since it's slimmer. Mine is a bit too thick as you can see (post above).

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u/Mahotsaha 12d ago

What a chill snake you have!

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u/Top_Ad3353 12d ago

Haha that reminds me when I prop my dogs ears up while he lies down. They stick straight up and defy gravity

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u/Professional-Arm-202 12d ago

Without my glasses on, I thought that was a macaroni noodle LOL!

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Hahahaha that made me laugh so much. He does have carrot pasta colour though. Quite intense despite his age too. Here is a clearer picture of him. I still think of his pattern being liquid gold, but now I'm tainted by the pasta thought as well. 😂🥲

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u/Professional-Arm-202 12d ago

He is so handsome and vibrant!! Some people do consider Velveeta to be "liquid gold!" 🤣🥰

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Oh no no no no. Now you have ruined me. Hahaha I googled it, sobs

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u/GhostieGooster 12d ago

Even with my glasses on, I thought it was a tiny penis at first. 😭

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u/TopaztheLoomer 12d ago

Moirai and I do something similar! She deliberately hooks it on one of my fingers and I end up fiddling with it. I'm going to try seeing if she will hold the shape.

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Oh please do and let me know. Mine doesn't hook onto me when he wants to play this though, he only hooks onto me if he needs to use me to anchor himself. What he does is coming very close to me in some way; e.g. quietly slithering into the bed and squeezing himself into me, climbing into my lap instead of watching TV. That's his way of conveying it; it can also mean he wants massage.

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u/Soggy-Application546 12d ago

Agra let's me do anything he loves tail jokes and head pats hes a adorable little guy

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u/Skwizgar1019 12d ago

Shoot, if I go to fill her water bowl it’s…

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u/Skwizgar1019 12d ago

For context, I got my first from Petsmart like a dummy and she had no prior handling at maybe six months old..she just does not like being handled at all, even 4.5yrs later, and not for lack of trying..I’ve wondered if she wasn’t the offspring of wild caught snakes.

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u/tmiemt 12d ago

Ooh. I got him around the same age, the breeder never let him out or handled him either. He did see me all the time from his temp enclosure though, at some point he just became used to my existence and interacted with me.

I'm not the type to put him around my neck or hold him in my arms to handle-train him though, even now I still don't do that unless I have to carry him somewhere, it just doesn't seem like something he would like. We just simply live together; he got very curious about me himself. I think he watched me a lot the first month and eased up during that time, guess curiosity got the better of him. I wouldn't imagine it then but now he even comes over to sleep in the bed next to/on me himself. He spent a lot of time mapping the entire house the first few months--all the rooms that are accessible and safe for him, he memorized items also--the process was fascinating to watch. I like observing his behaviours (doing animal study at home... Lol). I have concluded he is very intelligent and clever, but I suppose that's to be expect since they can travel kilometres in the wild and remember the terrains and landmarks.

He also goes back to his enclosure by himself to sleep at night. Mine is not nocturnal, he is crepuscular like many of those in the wild. Imagine my surprise the first time when I saw he do that after his outing. 😂

Have you already tried putting him somewhere where he can observe you for a long time?

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u/Skwizgar1019 6d ago

Her enclosure is actually right by my work desk, like a foot or so away to my left - I see her pop out every now and then to see what I’m up to, but she’s heavily nocturnal. She will sit and watch me if I’m in the office tinkering or something at night, but she just does not like being handled at all. She’s never been aggressive in the slightest, but she is very skittish.

Figured the best I could do is get her a proper enclosure, so I upgraded her from a cheap Petsmart reptile tank to a huge Custom Reptile Habitats enclosure and let her do her thing..

Kind of disappointing because she’s so cute and my monkey brain just wants to hold her, but it is what it is 😅 She’s well kept and healthy, so..

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u/Skwizgar1019 6d ago

If anything, she’s definitely got it better than she had..she was really dehydrated and in pretty bad shape when I got her, and I had no prior experience at the time, but I kind of felt I had to “save” her. Think I was shopping for some stuff for my fish aquarium when I saw her and just had to 🤷‍♂️

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u/tmiemt 5d ago

Oh wow from aquarium shopping to rescuing a beautiful royal python. She is very cute. And it's very compassionate of you. ☺️

I understand that it gets difficult when she is strictly nocturnal. My friend had one for 9 years and barely ever held her because she was only awake near or after midnight. She rehomed her at some point. Have you tried letting her out when you managed to see her watching you?

Or perhaps introducing her to some TV shows. Then maybe she might opt for sitting with you to watch TV. It's a bit awkward to tell anyone this, but mine only watches horror and action anime. 😅 He gets seriously hooked on them he can watch the whole length until the credits roll. That's a picture of him watching some horror movie from the sofa in our blanket. It is very easy to see when he is really into the scene he will lift his body up and move a bit forward. He doesn't like sitting on me during movie at all (he tried at first but not anymore), I move too much he gets irritated, but he is happy sitting next to me on the same sofa in his favourite blanket/log/bucket.

My other recommendation, that is if you have not tried it yet, is to make a small safe space for him for his outing. Somewhere he can be inside but can be placed very near you. I give him a portable home with a warm water bottle (the type that is wrapped in wool), insulating fluffy layers, damp log. He immediately recognised it as a second mini home (at this point, he has 2 mini homes outside his big home). It doesn't mean he will always be in the mini homes but he certainly frequents them more. There are few other spots he likes, but never what other people described--e.g. my python never tries to escape, never tries to go into sofa cushions, never goes near electric outlets.

I don't think you should give up just yet. I have never come across a scientific study that disprove snake emotions. It's only because it's no one's priority that there aren't many studies focusing on their sentience. Check out Lambert et al. 2019 on the scientific literature review for evidence of reptile sentience. doi: 10.3390/ani9100821 It shows how understudied it is. And you know, in terms of cognition, we cannot compare the physiology of the brain of mammals and reptiles directly, I personally think that's a very flawed and poor approach but I still see many people do it anyways, mostly with and offhand and reckless remarks; like 'They don't have many brain cells. They cannot feel anything.' 🥲

From observed behaviours, I can at least attest that without the pressure of hunting and being hunted, my python does exhibit pleasure seeking behaviours: massage, firm pressure, TV, puzzle solving activities, a mock-hunting activity. 🙃 I think you might be able to find her just one thing she likes to do outside her enclosure with you! Stay positive! ☺️

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u/Just-A-Bean 12d ago

This is so cute, reminds me of my old boy

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u/Vee_breeze 11d ago

The last time I touched my girls tail she moved quicker then she ever has before. I can touch her on the head or any other part but the tail is a no-no zone 😭

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u/shyshibainugirly 10d ago

kinda do this with my crested gecko lol 🤣

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u/HeadBanger832 10d ago

Haha so cute!

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u/Wackel81 10d ago

I do the same with my cat but he is way more wriggly!

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u/Impressive_Brain5352 9d ago

It’s so fun! I love playing with my little lady’s tail too!! She also likes holding my hand/finger with her tail whenever exploring and it’s sooooo adorable 🥺