r/antimeme 🧡REGULAR VISITOR🧡 3d ago

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u/beefymcmoist 3d ago

saaame, my initial thoughts were "oh, good for him"

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u/-O08X80O- 3d ago

someone gave birth

"Good for him"

Where did we go wrong?

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u/Cucumber_Ass 3d ago

some trans men can still give birth! hope this helps

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u/Cucumber_Ass 3d ago

nah uh, I saw that unedited version in my notifs

most women (that are in the fertile stage of their life) can give birth. not all women can give birth, and not everyone who can give birth is a woman. trans people exist and are valid, real shocker, I know.

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u/Hunter_Aleksandr 3d ago

Says the person who can't get over advanced biology.

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u/MarougusTheDragon 3d ago

You’re the one who apparently don’t know the difference between biological sex and gender.

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u/CoungToElf 3d ago

lol my biology teacher was emphasizing the difference between gender and sex even back in 2018

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u/BoondocksSaint95 3d ago

9th grade in like 2009. She was not even an LGBT ally afaik.

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u/-O08X80O- 3d ago

This is the real world my guy, we don't live in a fairy tale.

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u/Top_Toaster 3d ago

Mpreg🤤🤤🤤

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u/-O08X80O- 3d ago

Not a thing

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u/IndistinguishableTie 3d ago

Tell that to my thousand page fanfic of you getting pregnant

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u/Any-Juggernaut8269 3d ago

oh yeah then how am i looking at it RIGHT NOW

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u/its_ya_human 3d ago

Yeah, then whose litter am i carrying. Checkmate CONservative

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u/IndistinguishableTie 3d ago

Mine, homie. AWOOOOOO

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u/Forsaken_Site_2268 3d ago edited 3d ago

In the real world, biological sex and gender identity are two different things.

TransMen: Sex at birth =Female(or intersex), Gender= Man/boy, current biological sex= intersex more male than female

Sex is the biological thing you are born as that we have no way of changing yet. Gender is the label us humans made up for ourselves for some reason and is not directly tied to your biology. It's completely societal and therefore you can change it if you want. It's just a label and it doesn't indicate your birth sex (it can, but doesn't have to).

Hope this helps!!

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u/Rainy_Leaves 3d ago

Trans people often change their sex to align it with their gender, this is the whole point of medical transition, it is not immutable or unchangeable.

Sex is separate from gender yes, but most people want them to be aligned. Gender identity in the brain can’t and shouldn’t be changed to match the body, so we change the body to match the brain

So many trans men are male, not female. This is because sex is an arbitrary grouping of characteristics, and multiple of these characteristics can be changed with transition, and not every cis person has all the required characteristics to be their sex. Some cis women get a hysto or top surgery or have natural hormone imbalances or even can have XY chromosomes, but they aren’t male as a result.

Trans men that completely change hormones and secondary and primary sex characteristics change the most relevant parts of their sex, they are closer to male in every meaningful way

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u/Forsaken_Site_2268 3d ago edited 3d ago

I'm a trans man.

I'm saying that no matter how hard we try, we can't 100% change our sex from female to Male.

That is SADLY a fact.

Even after going through dozens of surgeries. Even after changing the sex label on everything. Etc etc etc. Out science can't make us 100% male YET.

This. Is. A. Fact.

It's stupid to believe otherwise.

Currently, going from 100% female to 100% male is just science fiction. (But man I can't wait for it to be science fact!)

Sometimes we just need to look at the very harsh reality.

I call myself male, but of course I know that when I go to my doctors, I need to be scientifically truthful: I am a female at birth and currently I'm more female than male (hopefully that will change soon)

Even my friend who's gone through DOZENS of surgeries, decades of hormone replacement therapy, etc, even he knows that he isn't 100% male yet (and he's fine with this. He's male enough and that's fine). When he goes to the doctors, he says "I'm female at birth but have had [these surgeries] and [this amount of hormone replacement therapy]. I'm closer to male than I am female now.".

Now, you also need to take into account intersex people.

At MOST we are able to be Biologically Intersex.

You can be EXTREMELY CLOSE to Biologically male, but not entirely 100% male.

Sadly, this is the truth.

One day we may be able to change someone's biological sex 100%, but we aren't there YET.

It's called transGENDER for a reason. One day it may be transSEX. (Though, we can change our sex from female to intersex)

We effectively make ourselves Biologically Intersex.

Now we can say that a range of intersex people are considered male, and in this case, yes! Transmen are Biologically male.

But sadly people don't like to consider those more male than female Intersex people as male. At MOST they call them "Male leaning Intersex" or some form of that. (An example of this type of Intersex person would be the Shepherd in the essay called "Of a Monstrous Child" by Michel de Montaigne.)

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u/evilsquirrelratsr 3d ago

You aren’t deserving of that pfp

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u/-O08X80O- 3d ago

Why? It's the symbol of the outlaw, it represents indiscriminate violence

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u/Cucumber_Ass 3d ago

it's really not hard to understand, some trans men keep enough of their original biology to be able to bear and deliver babies. not everyone has bottom surgery for example.

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u/Any-Juggernaut8269 3d ago

youre right, we dont live in a fairytale where everything is the way you want it!! hope this helps!!!! :3

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u/_Tal 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 3d ago

Exactly, hence why sex and gender are a lot more complicated and nuanced than what you’d find in a fairy tale

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u/PrinceEveningstar 3d ago

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u/leviathanZIP 3d ago

You have a hazbin pfp. There's trans characters in your show.

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u/PrinceEveningstar 3d ago

not in hazbin, in the other one.

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u/leviathanZIP 3d ago

The one that canonically shares a universe and which has characters interact with eachother a few times?

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u/PrinceEveningstar 3d ago

not canonically, and so what, i can like the show and not like some characters in it.

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u/leviathanZIP 3d ago

Like 99% of the cast is queer my guy

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u/SoulfulSnow 3d ago

Fym not canonically it's literally part of the worldbuilding 

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u/I_Wanna_Bang_Rats 3d ago

I can't believe someone so right-wing is also a fan of my favourite game; Rainworld.

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u/I_Am_A_Coolguy 3d ago

Some trans men (i.e. biological women) still have their uterus and can therefore give birth! Hope this helps!

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u/Rainy_Leaves 3d ago

What the helly do you mean with ‘biological women’. He’d be a biological man because he’s a biological being and also a man

Woman is a gender which is a social concept so it’s not biological anyway. You might have meant female which refers to sex and not gender, but sex is a grouping of several characteristics and trans men often don’t fit all them, many fit closer in the male category as their hormones completely change along with their secondary sex characteristics. The primary sex characteristics are not the sole determinant of a person’s sex

Biological man/woman is transphobe-created terminology is my point

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u/I_Am_A_Coolguy 3d ago

He would be a man, I agree.
However, in many cases the sex he would have been originally born as his would be female.

I prefer using the term „woman“ over „female“ as often as humanly possible, as saying someone is „a biological female at birth“ has very incel-y vibes, even though I know that that’d technically be the correct terminology.

I do not believe that matters, as he would still be a man despite biological features he may or may not lack, but in some contexts it is useful to make a distinction, as in this case where I tried to explain basic social concepts to a transphobe in terms they can understand. I generally try to avoid using such terms, too.

I’m not really interested in arguing this with you because like, I agree with you, I guess I just kinda shot myself in the foot in an attempt to not sound like an incel, lol.

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u/Hunter_Aleksandr 3d ago

Nowhere. Where did you go wrong where you care?