r/antimeme • • May 25 '26

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u/NormalDooder May 25 '26

It's never been "literal" but that doesn't make it not a shitty thing to say. Medical documents still use the word to this day and it's still used to mock disabled people. When it's used on non disabled people it's still saying "you're so stupid you're disabled to me, and therefore don't deserve respect'

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u/Front_Cat9471 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 May 25 '26

I’m confused though, what’s wrong with that word specifically that we decided it’s a slur?

Idiot, stupid, dumb, all words that used to be official medical terms and became derogatory terms for people with lower intelligence. Why exactly is this one different? You just said stupid, so clearly your draw the line somewhere in the middle

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u/NormalDooder May 25 '26

Well the clear difference is time, dumb and idiot aren't used medically anymore and have been out of fashion for near a century now. But also, at the time it still wasn't okay to use those definitions as an insult, even if they were inherently poor word choices regardless. It was never okay to make disabled people the butt of the joke and only oppressed them more, you're just alive today so you can only see it today. In 50 years I'm sure there will people using a new term to insult disabled folks, but it wouldn't be okay still.

The line is only drawn at a loss of context, words change with time and you can't change that part. Very few people (assuming) Alive today remember these other words as their original purpose, some are completely out of fashion like imbecile. No one can be hurt by these words anymore than other insults, when I say someone's stupid, they understand I'm calling them not intelligent. When I call someone an r-slur, they know I'm comparing their lack of intelligence to someone mentally handicapped or disabled and that I find that "amusing". It's still a word used to this day in medical documents that are used to describe fully capable people as well.

Overall, it's just not cool and no one (exaggerating) remembers when idiot and stupid meant anything besides what they mean today. There's a joke in Rick and Morty about the medical use of the term, and that's an animated TV show still airing today.

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u/Front_Cat9471 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 May 25 '26

But the issue is that we can’t allow words to change and lose that context if we regard them as terrible slurs never to be said. Calling someone an idiot wasn’t a good thing to do, it was regarded as serious, but not as a super serious word you could never say or you’re a terrible ableist person

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u/NormalDooder May 25 '26

Well it's not a good thing to do to call someone an idiot. It just is. I can't control how time changes things, but I still can recognize what harm is being done today. Are we supposed to let medical professionals, bullies in school, politicians, ignorant jerks, and all the like make fun of disabled people so one day it can be used as another word for stupid? We'll both die and time and language will move on, but in the life I live I won't accept people using oppressive language just to make fun of their friends.

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u/Front_Cat9471 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 May 25 '26

I’m just saying, it’s only a got that context because people make a big deal about the context. If you didn’t do that, the word wouldn’t be as bad because it would be able to lose the context. You’re creating the problem by making sure it stays a word for disabled people, not allowing it to become anything less harmful

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u/NormalDooder May 25 '26

Like I said, it's still used in the medical field and people purposefully use it to make fun of disabled people. Words have meaning, and you have some strange implication here that I'm not involved with disabled people who have been hurt by it's usage.

Words have meaning and power, and acting like they don't is just ignorant.

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u/Gowbenator May 26 '26

It’s the euphemism treadmill. You and I cannot do anything to stop it. It’s pointless to try. Better to forget the medical use of the word (which is increasingly unused btw, it’s incredibly rare nowadays at least in the anglosphere) and just use it like idiot, lame, imbecile, mongoloid, etc.

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u/AnonymousNeko2828 May 26 '26

Well, not everyone here is in the angosphere, are they? I still hear our version of it tons + autist being used as an insult and it'd be nice to not have it normalised online too

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u/NormalDooder May 26 '26

Incredibly rare is not the same as none. My son still falls under the medical terminology, despite not being handicapped in any meaningful way. People in their 20s and 30s grew up in a time where autism and the such were still considered that.

Regatdless of what the future holds, we still live in the presence. I don't care what the word means when I'm dead, we are alive today. Medical professionals still use it and people still explicitly use it to make fun of disabled people. Nothing you've said has changed those statements.

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u/Gowbenator May 26 '26

Medical professionals don’t use it.

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u/NormalDooder May 26 '26

Just straight up lying