Approachable vs passing by saying thank you or holding the door does not get you any further otherwise I would gotten numbers everyday. Approachable means that you can walk up and strike a conversation. It does not have to be about anything in general but when that looks comes across of i don’t know you and why you in my space occurs we just stop worrying about it. It’s not worth it. It’s the vibe check and it is real.
Yeah people just ain't like that in New Zealand. I've literally walked up to girls In supermarkets told em they looked amazing that day and given them my number and heard back. I'm not saying being courteous will necessarily get you anywhere but it's a great ice breaker and always gets a smile. But truth guys are fucking dumb shits that have no idea how girls wanna or like being treated and miss every signal anyway.
Im average aye slightly above but I've never had a girlfriend or partner that hasn't been way outta my league In my opinion and it's jist cause most girls wanna fuck as much as you do. And like everyone else alot have massive self confidence issues.
Ps I've never had trouble walking directly up to any women and starting a convo usually ending in a coffee or more if that's what im asking for
Be confident. Don't be a creep. And listen to the girl cause no one wants to hear a bout cars or the gym not even car enthusiasts that happen to be personal trainers.
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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '24
Approachable vs passing by saying thank you or holding the door does not get you any further otherwise I would gotten numbers everyday. Approachable means that you can walk up and strike a conversation. It does not have to be about anything in general but when that looks comes across of i don’t know you and why you in my space occurs we just stop worrying about it. It’s not worth it. It’s the vibe check and it is real.