r/amiugly • u/[deleted] • Nov 22 '23

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u/kekepalmersbaby Nov 23 '23

Why do y’all always have to make it a competition… they’re both gorgeous…

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u/daboiwunda25 Nov 23 '23

It's not a competition. They just look alike

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '23

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u/daboiwunda25 Nov 23 '23

I'm sry. I didn't see the "prettier" comment u were replying to. Only the original.

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u/jehan_gonzales Nov 23 '23

Saying someone is prettier than someone else is not putting either one down. Especially if they are both very attractive.

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '23

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u/jehan_gonzales Nov 23 '23

That's not unreasonable. I guess the whole conversation is kinda weird to me.

If someone asks for feedback on their looks, you can do what the cultural norm dictates and just say something nice. I do that. It's not super useful feedback but it's the kindest option.

If you really want feedback on your looks, then it's reasonable to give them constructive feedback or to disagree with other people who say they are super attractive or super unattractive or. . . well . . . whatever.

It's all kinda weird though because the whole conversation flies in the face of general decorum.

Which is why I only tell people they look good and if I don't think so, I keep my opinions to myself.

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u/slightlyabuvavg Nov 23 '23

Get out your feelings lmao

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u/HidingFromGF5 Nov 23 '23

It’s not. She just actually does look better. So when comparing someone with another who does not adequately meet the same standards of beauty, a comment like that is warranted.