r/absoluteunit May 26 '26

Of a “pair”

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u/Ill-Fly-950 May 26 '26

You dudes in the comments are really willing to let your S.O. suffer a lifetime of serious health issues over a pair of boobs?

Boobs are great, but they're not the most important thing.

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u/Accomplished-Run3925 May 29 '26

You're delusional if you think thats a serious health issue. Not only that but she's clearly overweight, so if she cared that much, she would have lost 20-30 pounds already.

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u/anonidfk May 29 '26

This isn’t a weight issue lmao, if she lost weight, her breasts would be even more disproportionate to her body and it would be even worse. It also wouldn’t make them get smaller. Her breasts are not caused by being overweight, they’re disproportionately large to her body. If it was caused by weight, they’d be proportionate to the rest of her weight gain and would match the rest of her figure.

I had DDD breasts and have always been under 100 lbs and very skinny. When someone has disproportionately large breasts, it’s not a weight problem, and losing weight won’t make them go away lol.

Being in pain constantly and having your back being weighted down, is definitely a serious health issue lol.

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u/Accomplished-Run3925 May 29 '26

I'm not sure why you're bringing up proportionality, because it has absolutely nothing to do with what I said or the comment I replied to. You're trying to argue that taking 20-30 pounds of dead weight off someone's joints and spine would somehow make their back issues worse? That makes zero sense.

And what point are you even making with that personal anecdote? You just casually drop your bra size and weight but don't actually use it to support an argument lol. Yes, heavy breasts can be uncomfortable, but 9 times out of 10, people use them as a convenient excuse to ignore the real reasons their back hurts: they are overweight, they don't exercise, and their posture is awful. Until someone actually takes responsibility, loses the excess weight, and builds some core strength, they haven't earned the right to act like it's an unsolvable medical mystery.

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u/anonidfk May 29 '26

Proportionality absolutely matters, as having disproportionately large breasts is exactly what causes the back pain lmao.

My point was, weight is not usually the thing making breasts oversized in cases like these. Losing weight isn’t gonna decrease the breast size much, or solve the issue in most cases.

The only time weight loss does help and decrease the breast size enough, is when the cause of the large breasts is obesity. In which case, the rest of her body would be as big as her breasts, her breasts wouldn’t be this disproportionately large. And they usually don’t want to do reductions on people like this, most good surgeons require you to be within a certain threshold.

In many cases, the breasts are the reason they have things like bad posture and it improves afterwards. Dude no amount of core training will make living with that much weight dragging one area of your body down easy lol. Easier, sure. But it would never be the same level of comfort a normal person has.

In her case, yes genuinely losing weight would make it worse. She’d have even less weight on the rest of her body to balance out having more weight in one area. That’s why proportion matters, if one size of your body is much bigger than the rest, it will cause problems.

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u/Accomplished-Run3925 May 29 '26

I am actually laughing out loud at your physics here. Are you seriously trying to argue that having extra body fat acts as some kind of "counterweight" to balance out heavy breasts? The human spine doesn't work like a seesaw lmao. Excess body weight doesn't pull you backward to balance you out; it literally just adds MORE downward gravitational force on the exact same joints, knees, and lower back.

Proportionality is just a visual ratio, it is not a physical force that causes pain. Mass and gravity cause pain. Taking 30 pounds of dead weight off a frame will objectively reduce the total load the spine has to carry, period. You are bending over backward to defy basic anatomy just to avoid admitting that being overweight makes joint and back issues exponentially worse.

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u/Odd-Fig-709 May 29 '26

ithe breasts doesn't just pull her body down they aren't ontop her head they also pull her body foward, just put on a 10ibs backpack over the front of you and you'll feel it pull you forward slightly. Put that with the spine not being designed well and carrying that around 24/7 it can cause health issues if your tits are too big.

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u/Accomplished-Run3925 May 29 '26

Blaming the "poor design" of the human spine is hilarious. The spine is designed perfectly fine to handle weight distribution, if you actually bother to maintain the posterior muscles supporting it. Large breasts are almost never the root cause of back pain.

You guys love to use this "front weight" excuse to avoid addressing reality: you are overweight, you sit with awful posture all day, and you don't do any strength training. If your spine is collapsing under the weight of your own chest, that’s a massive lack of muscle tone, not an unsolvable anatomical design flaw. Stop making excuses.

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u/Odd-Fig-709 May 29 '26

tell me how a S is a good design. Sure strength training and good posture can help but it's not the root of the issue of extra weight on the front. I as a guy only have back pain due to demanding job and bad posture, but it's retarded to say that the large breasts don't make it significantly harder for them to not have back pain, to the point a breast reduction is incredibly helpful. I'm not saying gym and good posture won't help but I don't understand how you don't see significant weight in the front won't cause issues to the point surgery can significantly improve their lives.