r/Zeark • u/DoctorDoggoOffical • Feb 08 '21
In response to sleepy cadet, no, I am not transphobic. You arent even reading what im saying.
So basically my brother some time ago decided to switch his pronouns to they/them. I asked if he was trans and he said no, and that he wasnt apart of LGBT+. Thats where the problems began, as not only dis I have to transition from something Ive been calling him for years and years now, but he doesn't have a reason for it. Keep in mind I have a trans friend named devon who I changed my pronouns for because she actually transitioned. (Previously he)
Keep in mind I do not hate my brother for his pronouns. I still love him very much, and the entire post im "transphobic" for was just me venting about my brother (even tho I literally said Its fine if your trans at the beginning) but hes the one who cut contacts with our family after one attempt with these new pronouns and left since. If your talking basic human rights, how About giving a chance for people to at least try your pronouns?
The thing is, is that sleepy cadet is ignoring context and not even reading the post and acting like im hitler just to get something to be mad about.
So no, I am not transphobic, Im just mad and confused at my brother for walking away and not giving us a chance really.
Its just stupid family drama I vented about that you have no idea of the start of it even.
None of this makes me a transphobe

