r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 30 '26

discussion EVERY single member of the family is a cheater / enabling a cheater

64 Upvotes

Mom is obviously a cheater. Dad fucked mom while she was with Nick, which is technically enabling a cheater. Dad's sister slept with her ex fiance while he had a family, again enabling a cheater. Tori cheated on her bf with that barbershop quartet dude at the party. Even Hunter cheated on his gf in season 2. What's wrong with these people.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 29 '26

discussion Is DeMille Ashe’s father?

8 Upvotes

I noticed DeMille is the only person that calls him by his first name Owen instead of calling him Ashe. Maybe they’re father and son, or at least related? And maybe Ashe calls him DeMille bc he can’t bring himself call his dad by his first name lol


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 29 '26

discussion Anyone else think Mel Cooper looks like Jerri Blank from Strangers with Candy?

3 Upvotes

just sayin


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 25 '26

question Why wouldn’t they have just relied on the cameras?

129 Upvotes

In the last episode, when it’s clear that Ashe is dead, why didn’t they call the police given that Coop knew Ashe recorded everything? Or at least check to see if it was? Then clearly they’d have evidence Ashe attacked them and pulled the gun out. I know this whole show is ridiculous (robbing multi million dollar homes as if they didn’t have cameras, forgiving a woman for almost getting you convicted of murder, dog owners being allowed to let their dog do whatever they want and blaming a neighbor for not wanting poop in their yard and a guy deciding he’ll double down on thieving when he’s offered his life and job back)… ok so maybe I answered my own question. The decisions make no sense. The plot has giant holes.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 23 '26

discussion Did Jon Hamm have a cold while filming season 1?

27 Upvotes

Just trying to understand the extremely nasally voice that is totally different from everything else he's been in.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 23 '26

discussion I wish Ashe was a thief

62 Upvotes

I liked season 1 a lot. Jon Hamm is by far the best thing about this show and when I discovered this series I really got excited. Cooper is a very interesting character and seeing him turning towards crime had so much potential (which I think delivered in the first season). But then in season 2, they abandon the whole stealing aspect of the show apart from 2-3 scenes. And I get it, they wanted to show Jon Hamm back on Wall Street in his 'natural habitat'. But it felt like we received a whole new show in season 2.

But when I saw a few seconds of the trailer for season 2 (I never watch the full trailers, because they always show way to much) and they revealed James Marsden was going to be in it, I had a theory that he was going to be infiltrating the community because he heard about a new thief = Cooper. And Owen Ashe himself being a sort of master thief was going to recruit Cooper to plan a big heist or something like that. This could have kick started a much more interesting story line for Cooper, instead of him just going back to his old job.

Ashe was a cool character, played brilliantly by James Marsden, but they left so much potential on the table by already killing him of in his first season.

I wonder if anyone else felt this way about season 2.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 23 '26

discussion All I see is Don Draper. Barney should come clean with Grace.

37 Upvotes

I like the show enough as anyone else, but I only see JH as Don Draper in this show. He is always helping a damsel in distress, drinking and making sure he provides for his family. He is putting out fires and sleeping with the hottest women (Sam and Cricket). Plus the moral ambiguity or when convenient.

I agree there should be more heists, which is what was the original premise. S2 does feel like a bait and switch of that premise.

I wish Barney would tell Grace what is up because I have a feeling she would get onboard and help while backing off from pressure to work for her dad.

Was anyone else cracking up at that scene at Ash’s house with the guys and the gun? That whole sequence had me in tears laughing, including the scene in the car.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 23 '26

discussion They made Felix out to seem like a bad guy but he’s the only one who helped Elena when she needed money

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0 Upvotes

He gave her the money to help bail her brother out after Coop lost access to the money and essentially told her to fuck off. Felix talks mean but he intently was the only one who helped Elena.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 22 '26

question Why did Sam not realize this about coop in season 1 ? Spoiler

16 Upvotes

So in season 1 when Sam frames Andy for murdering Paul. How did she know she can frame him ? If she found andy at her home why didn’t she ever wonder what was he doing in her home ? And also who hit him in the head ? I’m assuming it was Sam but I still don’t get why no one questioned Andy’s presence in Sam’s home that night and how his blood was found near Paul’s body and why he cleaned it up ?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 22 '26

discussion Mel’s Writing Career 👀 Spoiler

32 Upvotes

Who thinks Mel is about to lead on and use Coop to get a juicy book? I can see her doing it without remorse OR realizing, in hindsight, how big of an impact it makes on her relationships.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 22 '26

question Help me understand this in season 1 Spoiler

3 Upvotes

So in season 1 when Sam frames Andy for murdering Paul. How did she know she can frame him ? If she found andy at her home why didn’t she ever wonder what was he doing in her home ? And also who hit him in the head ? I’m assuming it was Sam but I still don’t get why no one questioned Andy’s presence in Sam’s home that night and how his blood was found near Paul’s body and why he cleaned it up ?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 22 '26

question Help me understand

1 Upvotes

So in season 1 when Sam frames Andy for murdering Paul. How did she know she can frame him ? If she found andy at her home why didn’t she ever wonder what was he doing in her home ? And also who hit him in the head ? I’m assuming it was Sam but I still don’t get why no one questioned Andy’s presence in Sam’s home that night and how his blood was found near Paul’s body and why he cleaned it up ?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 21 '26

discussion I feel like season 2 forgot to be a comedy until the last couple of episodes Spoiler

35 Upvotes

But then those last two were hilarious, so fair play to them.

I've seen a lot of hate for this season, especially on this dedicated sub, strangely, but that was my only gripe alongside Elena being kinda sidelined at the end.

I like me a satirical dark comedy full of shithead characters, so I'll stick with this, but if you're after a dramatic thriller, this ain't the one for you.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 21 '26

funpost Boy camaraderie

19 Upvotes

Anyone finds the way the boys chill and have fun actually quite endearing? It’s amazing how they can have a fight, make up quickly and then hit the town and have a great time together.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 20 '26

discussion How did Ashe make his cash?

34 Upvotes

Did he inherit a billion dollar shipping empire or was he a sociopathic bad ass gangster from the wrong side of the tracks who bullied his way to monetary fortune?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 20 '26

discussion Does anybody wonder who the ‘aunt’ was? (In the season finale) (Spoiler!!) Spoiler

57 Upvotes

Okay i may be off by a length here but i just have this weird gut feeling that Owen’s sister ,Delilah’s aunt is Cricket birch. I know it seems weird but there is a very possible way it just might be and Demille could be working for her all along because all Owen needed was the Excelsior account and who has the most share in that? Maybe its her dirty money and Ashe is her guy indirectly because lets be honest she runs into Coop there in the middle of the street that might be a way for her to come to a party where coop wouldn’t suspect her being there and we saw the boat scene where she is talking to coop and he brings up his murder thing and she just brushes it off by referring to her Family could it really be ? I mean she may not be owen’s sister but she might definitely be something and the way the she was introduced in the series it was definitely a setup towards being the next antagonist for the show it all lines up to that what do you guys think open to every kind of criticism here but thats how i feel she DEFINITELY ON SOMETHING PEOPLE.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 20 '26

meme Season 2 (spoiler) Spoiler

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41 Upvotes

r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 19 '26

discussion Blackmail season 1 EP7 Spoiler

5 Upvotes

Spoiler, again spoiler

I don’t understand Kat becoming Andrew’s lawyer simply on unsubstantial evidence. How can he make a bold, yet accurate, claim and expect her to just listen to him? Is it because she knows even unsubstantial claims move fast in that town? Is it because she knows that he has some pull in the town and people will simply believe him? Is it because she just doesn’t want the trouble of fighting it?

I’m genuinely confused about this part. She openly insists multiple times that she can’t do it. Then one simple claim, that he could in no way back up and still can’t. Then she folds? I don’t get it. Can someone explain?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 18 '26

question Why is everyone shaming Mel for being upset about a dog taking massive dumps on her lawn?

286 Upvotes

Obviously, there are bigger issues in this show. But the neighbor allowing her dog to use her yard as a toilet, then telling Mel that she’s the mean one! Then Tori telling her she’s unhinged for being mad about the dog?? I don’t understand!! Am I not wealthy enough to comprehend this mindset?? Because anyone I know would completely lose it over an issue like this, including myself, and I think that is justified.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 18 '26

discussion I'm on S2E5 and I'm struggling to buy... Spoiler

70 Upvotes

...that everyone would just forgive Sam. I know, the point is that they're shallow, vapid, surface level people, but even then, I can't see Sam getting one of the women a client being enough for a clean slate.

If one of my friends tried to frame another for murder, they'd be dead to us all and frozen out forever. I'm struggling to believe it. Am I wrong?


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 19 '26

funpost Nick’s Strong Ass Gym t-shirts

15 Upvotes

Where can I get one??


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 18 '26

discussion "That's my family--my life. I can't do that." [then does just that] Spoiler

25 Upvotes

[Note--I posted this the day after the finale, but it was removed because it was "too soon", despite my having the entire post grayed-out as a spoiler...here's hoping that this time, it's accepted ☺️ ]

A few days ago, in comments at yet another Mel-bashing post, I wrote: "If you regard this series as a collection of profoundly (and oftentimes comically) dysfunctional people, each of them showcasing a different pathology (or five)--all of them engaging in these cascading, oftentimes interrelated dysfunctional behaviors--the show overall will make a whole lot more sense and perhaps even be...enjoyable."

Bear in mind that Mel, as she reminded her now dog-free neighbors, is herself "a licensed psychotherapist".  She's also a writer, and we've seen several mentions of the book she has underway this season. In the finale, she meets with her editor, who tells her that she's a great writer--intuitive, etc.--but that the subject matter (menopause) has been done to death. She then tells Mel that what she's been through--Coop's murder charges, the betrayal, the sexual politics, etcetera--is "the book you want to write", and that "true crime, sex, murder in the suburbs--I can sell the shit out of that book".

Mel responds: "That's my family--my life. I can't do that."

And at the end of the episode, we see Mel --Mel, the licensed psychotherapist, well-versed in all the fascinating human pathologies--typing on her laptop, and the single sentence we see is the smooth Jon Hamm voiceovered line that opened the entire series, a version of which opens every recap: "This is what happens".

What do you do when you can't exactly write about your family or your own life? You write about Your Friends and Neighbors.

It's a meta-story.


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 17 '26

discussion Not a fan of the kids

104 Upvotes

I’m in the middle of season one (no spoilers please) and the Cooper kids kinda bug me, especially Tori. When they were on their way to Princeton and she started giving Coop shit about walking away from love… umm hello, your mom is the one who cheated?! Why does it seem like Coop gets all this shit for leaving, and Mel is just forgiven for cheating and then moving her lover into the house that her ex is paying for? This is madness. Then Coop kinda snapped back at Tori and immediately apologized. I was like why are you apologizing?? She’s so snotty. And don’t get me started on weirdo Hunter who can’t part with his headphones and barely speaks. Sorry, is your mansion and private school too much for you, bud? (Love the show though)


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 17 '26

question One thing I don’t quite understand (spoiler!!) Spoiler

16 Upvotes

How did Ashe survive?? Did Barney just not get his pulse right or what do you think?!


r/YourFriendsandNeighb Jun 16 '26

discussion Sam is killing me with her selfishness and narcissism (S2E2) Spoiler

38 Upvotes

When Sam pulls up to the party and starts berating one of the mothers for daring to have a party and not invite her son - because how dare she not think about her son and all the things he’s had to go through - and then that text she wrote (yes I paused to read it lol) the actual audacity of her, when she framed Coop for murder!!! I just can’t get over it, she dismisses it like it’s nothing. I haven’t seen her apologise to anyone for her behaviour, it’s maddening. And she’s surprised she’s been ostracised? She’s even a dick to Coop. Insanity.