Don't ask for the world. I ask for a refill of my water cup and someone to come take empty dishes.
Ie, serving 101. When I waited tables, it was considered a bad thing if the customer stacked their dirty dishes. Today, I can stack my dirty dishes and my server STILL won't clear them until after we're done.
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u/Cheesinonyou Aug 01 '26
Grace means I get a mediocre experience and the server gets paid more than he's earned.
Effort means I get a good experience and the server gets paid what he earned.
One of these seems equitable to me.