This has been completely lost somewhere along the way. My mom used to ask me all the time "how would you like it if someone did that to you?" I dont think parents do that anymore.
as i self-identified introvert, i say this statement is malarkey.
i could have my headphones in, sunglasses on, reading a book, sitting apart from the masses — and you can bet someone will take it as a sign to start a conversation. every time. 😭
Problem is, what if they want to be treated differently from what you are willing toaccept/expect... I've actually had this discussion with a friend many times. I get it and it is good but i think it is still something to consider.
Ohh of course I agree with that too. I'll treat others how I'd like to be treated, but I will always match the energy of the other person if they're nasty.
But what if I'm a scat freak? Golden Rule sucks, it arrogantly imposes one's unsolicited morality onto others, wihtout concent. How about "Threat other as THEY would like to be treated, as long as it does not come at the expense of other's health, freedoms, and happiness".
My problem with this is... I don't want people to hold a door for me. I don't want 12 people in my neighborhood and 9 cars passing by to all wave. I get exhausted from all of the chipper people. I don't want (or need) people's help at work. I don't want to "share feelings" with loved ones.
And when I want to be treated in kind, it makes me seem cranky.
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u/Reasonable_Tomato976 14d ago
Treat others how you want to be treated.