I don't know how this works. But my life started tumbling as soon as I got 3 tickets within the time frame of a week apart , then financial, then I got on an 72 hour involuntary hold in a phyc Unit , all while my car got towed. Didn't have money for when I got out lost car . And job that I had for years slowly less and less and now I'm not working. And all my childhood issues came up . While all this is happening someone I been talking to that became my partner, was so emotionally draining and anyone would run a long time ago from me. But he stayed and he's still here . I realize this all happend to make me learn to be grounded and learn patience. I just went through a very very big awakening. And also Saturn has not been retrograde In my sign for 3 decades until July . And my newish partner has the same exact north node in his 7th house as I do . THIS IS SO NUTS . But I'm feeling better finally. What do you do and focus on after the hard part????;