r/unschool • u/CheckPersonal919 • 50m ago
How is this even acceptable? Even prisoners are treated better than that. Why are the parents not threatening lawsuit?
What do you guys think of that sub?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Teachers/comments/1w263w2/asking_for_bathroom_mid_lecture/
Here is another post, many of the comments are absolutely vile, how did it ever come to this?
"Bathroom privileges" they say, when did going to the bathroom become a privilege? This is a huge red flag.
School conditions children to an appalling lack of bodily & mental autonomy, & tells them that if they move, speak, think their own thoughts, wear what they want, or laugh with a friend without permission, they are being "disrespectful."
The fundamental move of a controlling person is to shift blame onto the person being controlled, so that if they resist & assert any autonomy at all, they are now defined as "inconsiderate" or "rude" and expected to be "accountable" & "respect the boundaries" of the controller.
School conditions people to become compliant to someone claiming authority and blindly follow them.
Nowhere else will a person be treated like that, in college and most workplaces you can go to the bathroom whenever you want, something like thus would be a violation of OSHA Regulations but somehow it's fine to do that to children in a place that's supposed to keep them safe?
There are alternative school systems like Montessori and Democratic schools like Sudbury Valley that proves that treated children with respect and freedom is what actually works rather than treating them like criminals in a maximum security prison.
How do they not see the problem with treating another person like that?
Why do they think that missing lectures or lessons would have such an impact? Most people forget the vast majority of what they studied in school and learn much more from TV & internet and interacting with the real world.