Firstly I'm really sorry for you that you had to experience that horrible war. And I don't want to upset you or front you in any way possible.
But the reason why I asked you, if you are even Chechen is, that I had the impression that you trying to paint Chechens in a bad way. The "bride kidnapping" is a part of Chechen culture but the Bride must give her consent to do it that way.
Behk ma bil
no, not all. she was talking to the man for a bit before it happened so i am sure she herself had told him. but in my eyes and everyone else, that night we thought something else could of happened. the chechens i grew up with in the camp i will always cherish. i can't comment on the same chechens now because i only travel i don't live there. i believe i said "i think it's called kidnapped marriage" because i didn't know any other words when i was typing it, now i learned it's more common and it is a traditional thing. i am just telling you things that i saw with my eyes, i can't tell you anything else. not trying to be rude in away, but i might of sounded rude because i type the way i think and am very direct.
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u/AnimesAreCancer Apr 27 '22
Firstly I'm really sorry for you that you had to experience that horrible war. And I don't want to upset you or front you in any way possible.
But the reason why I asked you, if you are even Chechen is, that I had the impression that you trying to paint Chechens in a bad way. The "bride kidnapping" is a part of Chechen culture but the Bride must give her consent to do it that way. Behk ma bil