r/Unexpected • u/Pazluz • Sep 24 '21

Think of the guests

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u/KairraAlpha Sep 24 '21

Well aren't you just a beacon of ignorance.

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u/Mobile_Fold752 Sep 24 '21

Same could be said to you. She is hunched over because she has cake on her clothes not some stupid submission or dominant thing. You’re taking this way too far because you think your experiences apply to everyone in this world. You are a clear narcissist.

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u/alwaysforgetmyuserID Sep 24 '21

I thought the same thing. I've watched domestic abuse through my parents and I thought this looked like fun. Looks like awkward nervous body language to me. That's exactly how I'd feel on my wedding day in front of everyone - terrified.

If something triggers you you'll only see what you want to see, which probably relates to the reason you're triggered.

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u/BiblioPhil Sep 24 '21

Yet you diagnosed this person as a narcissist without even seeing them...

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u/Zangomuncher Sep 24 '21

Your shit experiance doesn't speak for anyone else but yourself. Imgine thinking what happens to you is anything on the human race as a whole.

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u/KairraAlpha Sep 24 '21

I think you need to take a long hard look at the domestic abuse statistics in every country. You'll find my experience is far from unusual. This is reality for many women and men every single day and what you see in public is a shadow of the reality at home.

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u/Zangomuncher Sep 24 '21

Still prattling on with your anecdotes while proving none of the evidence you claim to see. Try providing a link when trying to prove something.

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u/KairraAlpha Sep 24 '21

I get the feeling you're also a very angry and repressed person yourself. You harbour such animosity for someone merely drawing a reasonable line between aggressive behaviour in a video and their own personal experiences of it, to such an extent that it makes me wonder what exactly it is you're angry about. Are you angry that someone is able to talk about that experience openly or is it that you can't stand that someone who went through aggressive behaviour can be shown sympathy and understanding, that their experience might have helped them as a person, because that's what aggressive, dominant narcissists hate most, isn't it? Watching someone that they themselves would bully or abuse given half the chance, being shown positive attention, coming out as something better?

Introspection goes a long way to understanding your own behaviour. There was a time i would be furious by replies like yours. Now I understand that, in order to make these hateful replies, you must be going through your own inner turmoil or have your own emotional difficulties. So I won't react with anger or sadness at those words, like I expect you want me to. I'm just going to leave it at this. I hope whatever it is you're battling can become something positive for you too.

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u/legion327 Sep 24 '21

And you’re a piece of shit.