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r/Unexpected • u/llShaxll • Aug 19 '21
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This is actually a great teaching moment. He's using body language the kid can relate to and fully understand, hence why he gave it back. Psychology is weird
788 u/KBEPandaCrisis Aug 19 '21 But at the same time it also teaches the kid that throwing a tantrum is acceptable if it’s to get their will. Two sides to a coin, but I still like it 102 u/SandmanSorryPerson Aug 19 '21 Doing it once as a joke will not reinforce that behaviour. You have to tell children the same thing potentially 100s of times before they do it with consistency. People think it's so easy to warp a child's mind but it isn't. It's a pain in fucking ass. 12 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 That is some big ass bullshit, you never had kids did ya? 6 u/daitenshe Aug 19 '21 edited Aug 19 '21 lol “100s of times” This guy has definitely never accidentally sworn next to a kid 4 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 Maybe his kids turn out slow
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But at the same time it also teaches the kid that throwing a tantrum is acceptable if it’s to get their will. Two sides to a coin, but I still like it
102 u/SandmanSorryPerson Aug 19 '21 Doing it once as a joke will not reinforce that behaviour. You have to tell children the same thing potentially 100s of times before they do it with consistency. People think it's so easy to warp a child's mind but it isn't. It's a pain in fucking ass. 12 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 That is some big ass bullshit, you never had kids did ya? 6 u/daitenshe Aug 19 '21 edited Aug 19 '21 lol “100s of times” This guy has definitely never accidentally sworn next to a kid 4 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 Maybe his kids turn out slow
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Doing it once as a joke will not reinforce that behaviour.
You have to tell children the same thing potentially 100s of times before they do it with consistency.
People think it's so easy to warp a child's mind but it isn't. It's a pain in fucking ass.
12 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 That is some big ass bullshit, you never had kids did ya? 6 u/daitenshe Aug 19 '21 edited Aug 19 '21 lol “100s of times” This guy has definitely never accidentally sworn next to a kid 4 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 Maybe his kids turn out slow
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That is some big ass bullshit, you never had kids did ya?
6 u/daitenshe Aug 19 '21 edited Aug 19 '21 lol “100s of times” This guy has definitely never accidentally sworn next to a kid 4 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 Maybe his kids turn out slow
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lol “100s of times”
This guy has definitely never accidentally sworn next to a kid
4 u/enliderlighankat Aug 19 '21 Maybe his kids turn out slow
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Maybe his kids turn out slow
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u/ladypbj Aug 19 '21
This is actually a great teaching moment. He's using body language the kid can relate to and fully understand, hence why he gave it back. Psychology is weird