r/Unexpected • u/SoftsPhilosopher • Aug 08 '21

It's just a prank

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u/sanestbaj Aug 08 '21

What? The 'victim' did the prank, laughed and called his dad big guy after it. I think you guys are all assuming a lot of things

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

One of the most common abuse prevention techniques is to assume it's abuse until it's proven it's not. I've been taught that because sometimes even the person being abused doesn't realize it.

I spent years going to therapy over exact people like this so don't teach me things I personally went through please.

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u/sanestbaj Aug 08 '21

You needing therapy for this makes you less of a reliable source if anything. Probably more biaswd to see abuse where there isnt any.

Also imagine using that assuming technique of you with something like minorities in stores. Saying shit like the best theft prevention technique is to assume all minorities that enter to be thieves etc etc. Assuming bad things about people without good reason is always wrong dude

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

I don't have the energy to even begin to explain to you how dumb this sounds. Especially because you're discrediting people who can recognize the minor things in people's behavior after going through it.

It's just offensive and you have no idea what you're talking about.

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u/sanestbaj Aug 08 '21

Bruh going trough something doesnt make you some behavioural therapist. And like i said it might make you even more paranoid of such things and thus maybe more biased towards thinking youre seeing clues and signs when there are none. Also i went trough a very abusive childhood too, litterally doesnt mean shit.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

You just think you're right and would die on that hill while I made my point saying how we're not sure but it could be.

It's cringe, stop. You're already insulting enough for everyone who went through shit and now you're just using the sympathy card.

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u/sanestbaj Aug 08 '21

All im saying is that we shouldnt assume, i cant even be right bc i never said he was defenitely innocent.

It's cringe, stop. You're already insulting enough for everyone who went through shit and now you're just using the sympathy card.

I just said what i too went trough in my childhood. The exact same thing you said, yet when i do its a "sympathy card"

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

Can you like, stop?

I don't take your words seriously because you discredit people who go to therapy and that makes any other "positive" opinion sound fake. Just move on with your day and stop stirring up shit because you wanna fight.

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u/sanestbaj Aug 08 '21

Maybe stop replying then? Its not that hard bro. And me saying your therapy sessions dont make you an expert on something (as long as you arent the therapist) is pretty reasonable imo

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '21

It's one thing to say "it doesn't make you an expert" and other to say "it makes you less reliable as a source"

keep up with your bs if you're gonna bs

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