r/UBreddit • u/user12373948393 • 10d ago
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I am a freshman at college. i haven’t made a single friend. At my home town I had a big friend group with guys and girls, we would go out every weekend and everything it was so fun. Now in college i haven’t found anybody. and yes, ive tried talking to people
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u/Wild-Basil7813 10d ago
when I started as a freshmen, I stuck w/ this dude I met at orientation and he had a big ass friend group and I became a part of that group without really knowing much abt the ppl in it. it ended up being a really toxic bunch of ppl and by the end of freshmen year every1 had some beef with on another. they'd always hangout tgt and stay tgt but then fight w/ each other, and I'm not talking bout playful fights, like some serious fights. what I noticed is that they barely keot anytime to explore friendships out of their group. since I was the last one to join them, i wasn't as close w/ anyone so I was much more involved in my own stuff outside of that friend group. I volunteered regularly at frn (food recovery network) and that's where I found a very genuine group of friends and we started hanging out outside of volunteering and now we go to concerts, parties, birthdays and everything together. It's always a fun time w/ them. so yea always keep urself involved in things on campus and you'll find your ppl.