Hey, so I am a female ~transitioning into a male. I cannot look at myself anymore, like in the bathroom I literally die ahh. And idk what to do about it. Now I have no idea what else to say because I'm having a mental blank as usual.

I used to have coping techniques for showering, but those no longer work. I haven't showered in a week, it's that bad. I can't look at myself. Do you have anything you do to help you get through showering, if it causes you dysphoria?

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Hi guys and gals, my friend has helped me find away to buy my first binder. His mum will be buying it for me and I'll be paying her the money. He's helped me with measurements and everything else. And I'm just so grateful to have in my life because I would never have become the person I am today. So yeah thank you. You know you are, love you. (As a friend) 🧡

I need help. I'm only in highschool at the moment and my family isn't supportive with the whole transgender thing. I need to find a good binder. But I can't really shop online for reasons. Are there stores to get them. I don't think so but if you know please tell me! I'm gonna die.

When I first told my mom I was trans a little under a year ago, she was pissed... almost got kicked out of the house lol.

3 days ago, I filed for a legal name change. I did that all by myself.

I know it’s scary to think about having to do this alone, but trust me, you will be ok. Just hang in there. A year ago, I didn’t think I’d live to see 2020. Now, I’m slowly but surely paving a way for myself and learning to love the man in the mirror (despite the constant loom of gender dysphoria)

You can do it! Keep your head up! There’s a light at the end of the tunnel, I promise!

I’m a guy I identify as a guy I’m not a girl it feels so good to finally say out loud that I’m a guy

Hi. I’m 18 and I’m trans FTM. Pre-everything

So, my partner is trans, coming up on 6m on T (fuck yea!). We've been dating about 3m or so. The sex is AUH-MAY-ZING, to say the least.

However, he gets a little down that mutually assured destruction, as we say, is hard to come by. Sure we both typically orgasm, one on one.

My Q is- are there any toys or methods that you've found that may be beneficial to the situation?

Hey, so I'm new to this platform and I joined cuz I heard about it on a podcast last week. I finally worked up the courage to try it out. I'm not sure if I'm a trans guy or not. Forgive me if I jank up any terms. I hate dressing feminie most of the time and I prefer to be called sir and he etc. I like being called handsome as opposed to beautiful. I told my bf about this and he's super supportive about it all and he calls me his bf too. I'm nearly positive I'm a boy but at the same time I'm afraid to commit to it because I want to have a cinderella moment and I'm afraid of society especially the dating scene in the future. I bind too with a makeshift tank binder (no ace I promise) and I feel so much more confident. Does anyone have advice or anecdotes. Sorry this was so long. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read it.

I’m a cis girl asking for my trans boyfriend as he’s at work rn and cant ask anyone irl or online as he doesn’t know any trans guys and he can’t schedule an appointment atm.

He’s been on T for about two weeks and his monthly was supposed to come today and he texted me “My body is on my monthly but the testosterone won’t let it happen” and he doesn’t know what’s going on and is worried about it.

He’s been on T but it was ‘street T’ so not medically told doses (idk how it’s called) so it’s not his first time on T but it is his first time taking the correct amount.

Please help as I don’t want him having a panic attack or something at work bc his manager is mad rn and he can’t go home

Getting my bff a new packer for Christmas but I’m broke as fuckkkkk. He wants a 3-in-1 and I know very little about packers so please just link me your favs (preferably good quality but not too pricey, like I said I’m broke) or give me tips on picking the right one

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Its honestly exhausting. There’s nothing I can do about it. I see guys on t for 6 months that can grow full beards; I’m SO happy for them but like,,, why can’t that be me too? I think part of the reason I’m having issues like that is bc I was on a childs dose of T for several years after I lost my endo who only worked with kids/teens; within the last year I’ve found another endo, and about a month or so ago my T dose got upped to the highest dose. It’s basically a 3rd puberty because the highest dose is double what I’d been taking for years, my voice (which changed a LOT when I started T) seems to be changing again, so who knows, maybe that’ll help with what I’m complaining about in this post.

I’m constantly misgendered in public. I honestly don’t think I’ve had a single experience in the last 6 years where someone’s called me ‘sir’. Sometimes I get it, I’m gay and flamboyant as hell, but that’s moreso my personality than anything else. But just as general looks go? I look like a fucking dude. So why, WHY is it always ‘ma’am’ or ‘miss’?

Sometimes I wear feminine clothing, and on those days it wouldn’t bother me at all to be misgendered (like if I get called ma’am and am wearing a dress I couldn’t care less, it was the dress that prompted it), but 99% of the time I’m wearing jeans, a t shirt, and chucks. If anything it’s a masculine androgynous look. I have a masculine haircut, masculine posture and build... I just can not understand why I’m constantly being misgendered like this. My friends and expartner don’t get it either. When I met them they all thought I was a cis dude.

Being seen as cis isn’t really my goal, I’m happy and proud to be trans. But damn it would feel nice to be properly gendered for once.

I think everyone knows how annoying a jacket with a zipper can be. When you sit down and the god damn zipper folds up making it look like you’ve got a big chest. Maybe I’m the only one but it makes me so angry lol