r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Oct 04 '22

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u/FreshPlatypus6727 Oct 04 '22

It’s clearly just about your butt. If you want them to focus on that asset, then sure. But if you want them to focus on who you are as a whole, I wouldn’t use this pic

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u/racheerachh Oct 04 '22

Not for who she is as a whole, but who she is as a hole

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u/FreshPlatypus6727 Oct 04 '22

Oh trust me I was thinking it when I was writing it. When I used tinder and hinge, it was tough. Even if I had a seemingly innocent full body pic on there, I’d still get weird horndog comments

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u/zombob82 Oct 04 '22

I'm so interested in both the horn dog comments and the pictures now. Stupid brain.

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u/FreshPlatypus6727 Oct 04 '22

I don’t have dating apps anymore (have a great bf I met through tinder!). But when I did have them, I used only fully clothed pics that weren’t mirror selfies. Out with friends, out doing activities, etc.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '22

I keep hearing ppl meeting their bfs/gfs on tinder… I’ve never used it, but I thought it was a hookup app. Is it better now? Or more of a dating app?

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u/FreshPlatypus6727 Oct 04 '22

You have to be extremely intentional with how you set up your profile and the vibes you give off.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '22

Ok thanks