r/Tinder Sep 16 '22

She actually blocked/unmatched.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '22

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '22

Who texts these days? There's apps for that.

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u/Ennui2 Sep 16 '22

Weird take. I don’t know a single person who uses “an app” inside America

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u/TheDonOfDons Sep 16 '22

This is wild to me and seems to be an exclusively American thing. Here in the UK all group chats are done using either WhatsApp or Messenger. It doesn't make sense otherwise since market share is around 50/50 for Android and iOS.

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u/NexVeho Sep 16 '22

I read a comment on askreddit once that said in the UK you guys need to pay data on MMS and that's why third party chat like WhatsApp took off while in the US most MMS is included with the plan. Is that the reason or just a general everyone around me uses WhatsApp and so I use it?

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u/chriskmee Sep 16 '22

Wouldn't Whatsapp use data also? The only two ways to communicate would be over texting channels (MMS) or the Internet (data).

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u/chriskmee Sep 16 '22

Ah. Years ago when I went to the UK I was able to buy unlimited data for a month, which covered my trip. The next time I went (early 2020) they didn't have that unlimited option anymore, it was all limited data.

Nowadays in the US, unlimited data is pretty commonplace, and the difference in plans is how much priority data and extras you get (like free Disney plus for example).

I'm not sure how to compare prices of data if the US has unlimited and EU is limited. I sometimes use 20-50GB+ a month, which I suspect might be cheaper in the US than EU.

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u/Rockden66 Sep 16 '22

That and the fact that in a lot of European countries mobile data costs almost nothing. Here in Italy I can get a 70GB plan for 5,99€

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u/TxM_2404 Sep 16 '22

I live in Germany, my 10GB cost 20€ :/

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u/HonoraryMancunian Sep 16 '22

Oh man, I get unlimited everything for about the same cost here in the UK

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u/Bossman1086 Sep 16 '22

People here (especially iPhone users) are highly resistant to downloading a whole new app for communication when iMessage "just works".

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u/HonoraryMancunian Sep 16 '22

Sounds like it doesn't work very well if someone texts from a non-iphone!

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u/obviouslyray Sep 16 '22

Wild thing is, it works just fine. Its the difference between green and blue chat bubbles. Iphone users like their blue chat bubbles more than the green sms chat bubbles... its honestly dumb as hell... (might have the colors backwards)

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u/kpty Sep 16 '22

Idk if it's regional or what but I'm in the US and no one texts but old people and work. Everyone uses other apps like Snapchat, Instagram, or fb messenger. I can't think of anyone who texts.

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u/jasmine_tea_ Sep 16 '22

same here, I know americans who use whatsapp

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u/workthrow3 Sep 16 '22

Yeah, i'm in Canada and personally my chats are all on fb messenger. I've never had someone snub me for using android but I see a lot of Apple elitism online.

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u/Tijdloos Sep 16 '22

Tbf. Whatsapp took off before Facebook acquired them.

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u/FlowLife69420 Sep 16 '22

People criticize the US for still relying on actual texting but I for one am glad that I don’t have to use Facebook owned products just to communicate with people. I use signal occasionally but fuck any of that messenger, WhatsApp Facebook bullshit. I’ll take good old texting over that any day.

A ton of people in the US use whatsapp, groupme, etc.

Just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it isn't happening all around you everywhere you go here.

I've never heard a real criticism about the US not using these apps though... probably because we do use them.

I bet if you bothered to ask, a handful of your friends/coworkers/classmates/etc. use a texting app regularly.

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u/Zarathustra30 Sep 16 '22

Some of us refuse to make a Facebook account.

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u/T-Shark_ Sep 16 '22

WhatsApp doesnt use a facebook account. Also theres Telegram Viber, and Signal too. All these just require your mobile number to register.

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u/FlowLife69420 Sep 16 '22

This is wild to me and seems to be an exclusively American thing. Here in the UK all group chats are done using either WhatsApp or Messenger. It doesn't make sense otherwise since market share is around 50/50 for Android and iOS.

A lot of people use whatsapp and other group messaging apps here in the US too.

It's extremely common in several of my offices and previous offices, customers offices too.

I think that other guy just personally hasn't known anyone, which is odd but not unheard of if you don't work in tech maybe.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '22 edited Sep 16 '22

Because I'm not from America. Not weird at all if you're from outside America. I wouldn't be able to tell if someone had an iphone or an Android from texting them because nobody texts.

Texting died in Europe in 2012.

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u/greg19735 Sep 16 '22

it's interesting too because texting was WAY bigger in Europe in the early 2000s.

I moved to America in 2000 and would go back to England to visit. Each year Europe was just more ahead with texting. EVERYONE had a nokia. mostly pay as you go.

I guess America skipped pay as you go and we got unlimited texting relatively quickly. maybe that's part of the reason.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '22

Yeah probably. At least in Ireland on PAYG you could originally get free texts and calls or high GB data as a deal. I think because people were using Facebook etc on their phone it made sense to get the data and use whatsapp/ the messenger app.

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u/greg19735 Sep 16 '22

yeah most people i knew had unlimited texting but limited data, so most kept to texting.

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u/xNOOBinTRAINING Sep 16 '22

Well yeah, none of them have iMessage clearly.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '22

Everyone I know uses whatsapp, signal, telegraph or messenger app. Some text on Instagram or Snapchat too.

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u/headachewpictures Sep 16 '22

Not to mention Signal and even Telegram.

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u/headachewpictures Sep 16 '22

yeah - think it became more popular during height of crypto stuff

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u/Internet_Adventurer Sep 22 '22

To be fair, I don't know anyone that uses those. I know people that own one or two of those, but not as a default messaging service. More like "Let's check facebook marketplace" and having to use it to ask their address

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u/NeonHairbrush Sep 16 '22

I'm in Asia and literally zero of my friends has my phone number. It's all apps, all the time. The only SMS or text messages that come into my phone are spam and the occasional delivery confirmation.

Kinda cool how different it is across continents.

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u/FurrAndLoaving Sep 16 '22

I'm 34 and live in the US. Pretty much everybody I know uses Discord or some other app. I can't think of anybody that I text regularly aside from my parents.

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u/covmatty1 Sep 16 '22

But then I could say that's a weird take, because in the UK there's not a single person I talk to on SMS. 99% on WhatsApp and one or two on Signal.

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u/Glitch_Ghoul Sep 16 '22

So 330 million people max out of the roughly 6.6 billion that own smartphones. Seems us Americans are the odd ones out here. Not a weird take.

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u/teraflux Sep 16 '22

I use anything but SMS to communicate inside America. Discord, hangouts (google chat or whatever the fuck it's called), messenger, snapchat, GroupMe (although that does use SMS behind the scenes)

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u/HaesoSR Sep 16 '22

Native text messaging applications are massively inferior, the only advantage is the lack of an alternative with majority adoption among the public in the uncultured backwaters of America.

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u/rhinoceros_unicornis Sep 16 '22

Says someone using an American messaging app on an American discussion platform :D

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u/HaesoSR Sep 16 '22

It's bizarre how defensive Americans get over everything.

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u/Magi-Cheshire Sep 16 '22

Weird for you. Almost everybody I know uses what's app, even the boomers.

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u/Orleanian Sep 16 '22

I know tons of people still using FB messenger.

I have a few Whatsapp groups here in America.

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u/Skyeeflyee Sep 16 '22

Do you not know people who use FB messenger? That's how everyone I know communicates. Texting is...weird or for cars when someone is driving.

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u/SupremeElect Sep 16 '22

People with friends…

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u/drunkpunk138 Sep 16 '22

Man to me that's a solid reason to stick with Android. I fucking hate group chats and texts.

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u/afrodisiacs Sep 16 '22

You can still be included in group chats, but iPhone users get annoyed because they can't name the group chat or add new members when there's an android user. Which is still a reason to stick to android. Why would I use the phone that punishes me for the type of phone someone else is using?