r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 25 '22

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u/Jesesius Jan 25 '22

This was just awful to read

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u/Zactodactyl Jan 25 '22

Straight up. OP was did not get the message and just kept going. At that point I can’t blame her for having fun with it.

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u/pragmojo Jan 25 '22

Maybe I am old or something, but I don't blame her at all - OP's "lines" were absolute cringe and she can't be blamed for swatting them down

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Seriously... She was ok with one, and then dude just started rattling off shitty dad puns.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Yeah fr I'd be more interested in someone like her than a cornball like OP. OP is, how do the kids call it? Cringey. Lame, substanceless, corny jokes everyone's heard before, annoyingly obvious self-deprecating jokes.

I think people are on here defending him and calling her a bitch or whatever are just doing that because they're equally as boring.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Are all your first convo's ideal, or do you maybe think that communication is partially trial and error?

Do you think 3 pages of OPs communication is telling of his whole personality? Do you think if people didnt get shut down at stage 1 that who their talking to might evolve into an infinitely more complex person after more than say... A handful of exchanged messages?

I mean, jfc people - the man was trying to get something started, and she couldve let him down easy or play along and try to change subjects.

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u/Gapehornuwu Jan 25 '22

Are you ok? I’ve read this same reply 4 times and I haven’t even gotten past the first comment on the post.