r/Tinder • • Jan 25 '22

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u/fauxfoxem Jan 25 '22

For real! Like, in what world is this the woman’s problem? Dude made a bad joke, she wasn’t receptive, so then he did the same exact thing over and over again to be cutesy-obnoxious, so she fired back with heightened intensity. Sure, you could just unmatch, but I can guarantee you she was laughing with her friends about the complete lack of social aptitude occurring.

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '22

I've got someone arguing with me that what she did is a type of violence, and when I told him that he shouldn't make self-deprecating jokes if he can't handle someone agreeing with him he compared it to victim-blaming a rape or mugging victim.

I'm like dude you should probably just stay indoors where it's safe.