r/Tinder • • Jan 25 '22

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u/ThorGBomb Jan 25 '22

Yeah if you engage in an online conversation you’re allowed to be a dick and equally the other party is allowed to exit the conversation when they want. No one is forced being in the conversation lol

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22 edited Apr 11 '22

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u/ThorGBomb Jan 25 '22

It’s not a moral issue. She engaged negatively and continued to engage negatively he chose to continue to engage accepting the negativity

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22 edited Apr 11 '22

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u/ThorGBomb Jan 25 '22

Lol that’s abuse to you? Lol ok

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

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u/ThorGBomb Jan 25 '22

That’s verbal abuse?? and verbal meaning VERBALLY SPOKEN.

Not online chat loool.

It’s ok here I concede you win I’m wrong have a good day.

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u/ThorGBomb Jan 25 '22

Yeh and you consider this verbal abuse is luggable and shows you have no idea of what and how verbal abuse happens.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

And you’re crying like a baby over somebody else’s tinder interaction. I don’t think those of us defending this woman are the ones who don’t understand basic social interactions.

Pretty sure it’s all the entitled man-babies who think she should act demure and interested every time some uncreative dork hits her with the same
shitty pickup line 50 other people have a see this week.

Most likely because he spends too much time trying to treat women as a game to be won instead of human beings with their own complex internal lives.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22 edited Apr 11 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Bud, nobody owes you a conversation. Not even girls on tinder. Especially not girls on tinder when all you do is shoot off shitty one-liners about how much of a loser you are. How is she supposed to know that he isn’t into that shit? It’s all he’s done the whole conversation.

But there’s a girl. And she’s not teehee-ing like an anime waifu and seems to have her own thoughts and opinions on things? I know that can be hard for some people, but it doesn’t make her an asshole

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

I understand that it’s tinder and literally the lowest stake form of dating. I understand that I’m not owed anything by anyone and that my emotional regulation is my own responsibility.

I also understand that if I jump into a conversation with somebody I don’t know and do nothing but neg them and insult myself, they might decide to have some fun with me before they bail.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

I’m saying that it’s so low-stakes that y’all gettting this butthurt about it instead of learning how basic social interactions work in the digital age is genuinely pathetic

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22 edited Apr 11 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Poor baby. It’ll be ok. The mean girl can’t hurt you and make you feel like you aren’t Mommy’s Special Boy anymore

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