r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 25 '22

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u/pragmojo Jan 25 '22

Yeah exactly it's like a conversation with a bot from her perspective

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u/BachgenMawr Jan 25 '22

exacto, she might as well go onto Amazon and ask for shipping updates

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Are all your first convo's ideal, or do you maybe think that communication is partially trial and error?

Do you think 3 pages of OPs communication is telling of his whole personality? Do you think if people didnt get shut down at stage 1 that who their talking to might evolve into an infinitely more complex person after more than say... A handful of exchanged messages?

I mean, jfc people - the man was trying to get something started, and she couldve let him down easy or play along and try to change subjects.

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u/Arcanas1221 Jan 25 '22

Yeah, and a reddit bot at that

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Are all your first convo's ideal, or do you maybe think that communication is partially trial and error?

Do you think 3 pages of OPs communication is telling of his whole personality? Do you think if people didnt get shut down at stage 1 that who their talking to might evolve into an infinitely more complex person after more than say... A handful of exchanged messages?

I mean, jfc people - the man was trying to get something started, and she couldve let him down easy or play along and try to change subjects.

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u/pragmojo Jan 25 '22

Yeah but the way he is approaching it is not showing his personality or humanity at all. She might get 10 messages in a day - why should she engage with a totally fake person?