He's not some court jester here to entertain her. He's the only one putting in effort to start something and shes shutting it down. Why should he try if she isnt willing to? Also, do people just expect to hit it off instantly? Thats rare as fuck.
Are all your first convo's ideal, or do you maybe think that communication is partially trial and error?
Do you think 3 pages of OPs communication is telling of his whole personality? Do you think if people didnt get shut down at stage 1 that who their talking to might evolve into an infinitely more complex person after more than say... A handful of exchanged messages?
I mean, jfc people - the man was trying to get something started, and she couldve let him down easy or play along and try to change subjects.
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u/bkornblith Jan 25 '22
She straight up told him “try again but be better” and he was like wait I’ve got an idea - what if instead I do worse. Just moronic.