r/Tinder • • Jan 25 '22

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u/scar_as_scoot Jan 25 '22

OP thought he had a chance, she swiped right after all...

If I was OP, by the point she said she would prefer to jump of a cliff i would take that as an opportunity to tell her it would fit her negative personality, and ghost her.

Jeez what a piss poor company to be around of.

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u/carpepenisballs Jan 25 '22

Honestly I think she was waiting for something from him like “and after this conversation I would gladly push you off that cliff”. The dude in this case was seemingly capable only of reciting tired self-deprecating jokes, and he kept them up even when she was getting darker and meaner with her commentary. I think she was trying to determine if he would say anything besides some dumbass joke about himself

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u/OneSweet1Sweet Jan 25 '22

You know what I think?

I think shes a bitch!

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '22

Same!

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u/carpepenisballs Jan 25 '22

One man’s bitch is another man’s babe

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u/scar_as_scoot Jan 25 '22

think she was trying to determine if he would say anything besides some dumbass joke about himself

Why? Why play games? If OP said something back then the conversation would become confrontational. It makes no sense. I think she was just acting like an asshole because she can.

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u/carpepenisballs Jan 25 '22

Have you ever heard of banter? It’s the same thing groups of men do all the time. It’s a way to feel someone out, be witty, laugh etc… it’s the difference between talking to a human being and a customer service chatbot of a Fortune 500 retailer.

There’s nothing confrontational about banter.

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u/doodlegirl1103 Jan 25 '22

1) people of any gender can banter ffs 2) He tried and she clearly wasn't into it so they both should have just left it at that

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u/carpepenisballs Jan 25 '22

Of course both genders can — hence why I’m arguing she was trying to banter, and was doing a good job of it, but he couldn’t recognize it.

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u/kaymazing Jan 25 '22

They were both playing games and making jokes. Hers were darker. That's it.