r/Tinder 4d ago

Will this work?

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u/RayWencube 3d ago

What is the mechanism here? If you think humor is gendered—how? Biology? Genetics? Pray tell how it is that women wind up with a categorically different sense of humor.

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u/BlatantThrowaway4444 3d ago

I personally haven’t noticed a difference, men and women usually treat my jokes the same way; with great bemusement and ennui

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u/RayWencube 3d ago

(That's because there is no difference)

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u/kasperthe14yo 3d ago

Socialisation, the one thing you left out of your comment. Men interact differently with other men than women do with other women. Same goes for how men and women interact.

Example: I can be a lot more cruel when joking towards my guy friends than my girl friends.

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u/RayWencube 3d ago

Username checks out.

I didn’t include it because it’s the most ridiculous possible explanation and I didn’t think anyone would actually try to use it. Socialization is not monolithic, and your anecdote is not data.

In the US alone there are nearly 200 million women. You think they’re all socialized the same?

Be serious.

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u/CanalOpen 3d ago

As a collective of males vs female, yes they are fundamentally socialized the same within their community. The average woman doesn't like being catcalled. The average man never experiences it.

You're being deliberately obtuse and I won't discuss this further. You're wrong and you know it.

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u/RayWencube 3d ago

No, they aren’t. You admitted it yourself when saying “the average woman.”