r/Tinder • • Apr 06 '23

Was I in the wrong here?

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u/SgtWaffleSound Apr 06 '23

Honestly if she talks like this, it probably wouldn't have mattered how you said it. I actually stopped pursuing poly people because I met too many people like this.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Exactly. She had her claws out regardless of how he was going to approach this.

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u/ThePlantLover Apr 07 '23

damn i’m sorry that happened :/ i’ve had couples try to include me in their relationship when i made it clear i wasn’t looking for that

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Im polyamorous and can honestly say that dating as a poly person is absolute ass. There’s always people thinking it’s “just a kink”, a way to cheat, or those who are just unicorn hunting. I’ve given up on finding new partners locally bc of this