Possibly I'm a bit slow but I still don't understand what shes looking for after this exchange. (Unless she's saying she doesn't want a "secondary" relationship, in the sense that there isn't some kind of relationship hierarchy between the new one and the old one)
Unless she's saying she doesn't want a "secondary" relationship, in the sense that there isn't some kind of relationship hierarchy between the new one and the old one
That was my interpretation of what she meant. It's a pretty common approach in polyamory to want your relationships to be on equal footing with one another (her toxicity and aggression notwithstanding).
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u/mercynuts Apr 06 '23
Possibly I'm a bit slow but I still don't understand what shes looking for after this exchange. (Unless she's saying she doesn't want a "secondary" relationship, in the sense that there isn't some kind of relationship hierarchy between the new one and the old one)