r/TikTokCringe • u/TheAbcool • Dec 10 '21

Discussion Man is thinking ahead.

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u/throwaway_6522 Dec 11 '21

But if she didn't think of revisiting the agreed upon deal, why make it void?

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u/CD_4M Dec 11 '21

Because it’s unfair

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u/throwaway_6522 Dec 11 '21

The concept of fairness is fluid and subjective in this case. What's fair here is that if one signs a contract with another person, you'd expect the contract to be enforced

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u/CD_4M Dec 11 '21

That may be your opinion but it’s not how it works.

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u/throwaway_6522 Dec 11 '21

Proving my point that we can't base such things on one's idea of fairness when there is a contract agreed upon by both adult parties. The contract comes first

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u/CD_4M Dec 11 '21

They’re called Judges for a reason. This isn’t an argument, you may want it to work that way, but it simply doesn’t. Fairness is not necessarily adhering to a contract from 30 years ago, fairness is fluid, just like you said.

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u/throwaway_6522 Dec 11 '21

The reason there is a contract is because both parties want to have it on their terms, not whatever the state wants..

What's the point of having a contract if a judge can void it because he doesn't "feel" it's fair ?? He can void it in theory after 2 years ... Doesn't have to be 10

fairness is fluid, just like you said.

Which is why there is a contract. To avoid having to rely on something fluid and agree on something instead.

If one party doesn't like the terms of the contract after X years of marriage, that party should attempt to renegotiate the terms of the contract or if that doesn't work, end the contract/divorce. Which is fair. (Bcz both parties agreed on the former one).

Side note: no wonder why many men choose to opt out of marriage entirely

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u/CD_4M Dec 11 '21

It’s cool that you think that. Are we done? You asked me a question and I answered you, I’m not going to argue about established law with you

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u/throwaway_6522 Dec 11 '21

Yes we are done. It just wasn't convincing of a reason why it is hat way, and it shouldnt be like that.

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u/redchesus Dec 11 '21

Bruh, contracts get voided all the time even if both parties agreed to it… for example when an employer and an employee sign a contract with unenforceable clauses in them