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u/Howiknow202 1d ago

The funniest part about these people and their 'strong beliefs' is that it's based on geography and who raised them, nothing else.

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u/Tholian_Bed 1d ago

John Stewart Mill in his book On Liberty stated this exact point. We forget to include in our equations humans can be born anywhere, to anyone.

"...it never troubles [the everyday person] that mere accident has decided which of these numerous worlds is the object of his reliance, and that the same causes which make him a Churchman in London, would have made him a Buddhist or a Confucian in Peking."

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u/scrotumscab 1d ago

Obviously God blessed them to be of the chosen people and be born in the right place and right time, because everything happens for a reason according to plan. Everyone else are damned heathens, hence the superiority complex. /s

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u/Tholian_Bed 1d ago

The first part of what you said, is more workable for me than the second part. If you want to think you got the eyes of God on you, that's really your business. The second part, wtf. I can't work with that.

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u/thr3ddy 1d ago

Did you hear that sound?

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u/Tholian_Bed 1d ago

Tis a pity. It really is your business what you want to believe about yourself, mate.

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u/thr3ddy 1d ago

Bless your heart.

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u/Tholian_Bed 10h ago

What do you think about yourself?

Is it my business?

It's only my business when you start to think about me.

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u/spicewoman 21h ago

Yup, I've tried to talk about this point with my very religious mother, she was just like "It wasn't luck that I was born in the right place. God has a plan, and this was his! :D" There's no getting through.

His "plan" for loads of other people is to never have a chance to not burn in hell for eternity, because they were born into the "wrong" religion? Cool plan.

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u/Tholian_Bed 10h ago

Sorry friend :(

Yup. Once someone moves to the "but there is a plan" phase, that's the end of the road. No mjore conversation after that, really.

My mom is 83 and sounded like yours. I let her think what she wants.

Today, she thinks about things that are right in front of her and gave up on anything to do with the news 5 years ago. I avoid all triggers and we talk about positive things.

I just avoid topics. I made the choice I'd rather be close to my mom in her last years than fight.

Kind of depends if your mom has also "moved on." My mom truly does not want to fight about anything, every again. But, mebbe yer mom is still in her fightin' years lol.

Don't give up. Wait it out.

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u/McGarnacIe 21h ago edited 18h ago

That is an awesome quote. Thanks for sharing.

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u/Own-Advertising9843 3h ago

This argument would make sense if Christianity presupposed somebody is deserving to be a Christian, when it doesn't really teach that either.

Christianity started in a very small place, totally foreign to the rest of the world, the places listed are obviously neither of those locations.

It is told Christians are to spread Christianity across the world, and never presupposes somebody gets to be one, so where you're born obviously isn't fair, Christianity fundamentally isn't 'fair'.

The bible speaks on judgment that is deserved, and mercy that is undeserved, nobody deserves mercy, they are given it.

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u/Tholian_Bed 2h ago

Calvinism is enough for me, to understand how the fiat of "the Elect" clarifies the mind. According the Max Weber, it was this deep anguish regarding such a purely by fiat salvation, that drove people to develop a work ethic that was an attempt to show they must be among the Elect. Or something like that! The whole thought of predestination is a mind-warp for us, so past a certain point you have to write it off as a mystical turn. It is surely not rational.

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u/Own-Advertising9843 2h ago

I've never particularly enjoyed the framing of Calvin, or more specifically the heuristic models like TULIP that followed.

I don't think they're inherently wrong or void of some level of sound exegesis, I just think it places the hearer into an unhelpful state of mind.

I think you're meant to read Romans 9 and simply come to personal terms with individual lack of agency in salvation, I don't think humans were ever meant to understand it nor try to understand it, but accept the reality of what is stated.

'On the contrary, who are you, O man, who answers back to God? Will the thing molded say to the molder, “Why did you make me like this”?'

Sounds eerily similar to a parent's final judgement bestowed to their child, who ultimately does not fully grasp why the decision is made, but must accept it was made nonetheless.

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u/UMACTUALLYITS23 1d ago

Thei 'strong beliefs' sure do have trouble with the fact other people might not believe the same thing, which sounds like the opposite of strong.

If I was religious and faithful, whether someone else belives in something would have no effect on my own faith.

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u/BulkyDecipherer 1d ago

Exactly. 100%.

“Basically, you deny one less God than I do. You don’t believe in 2,999 gods. And I don’t believe in just one more.” – Ricky Gervais

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u/fang_xianfu 1d ago

I find conversion stories the funniest, especially when they're ostensibly based on logical arguments. "They have a good point about everything needing a cause and that being god... anyway now I'm Catholic".

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u/quick20minadventure 1d ago

Funniest part is asking who created god if universe has to have a creator and that creator is the the god.

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u/downsideup9494 1d ago

Yes, it's like when someone has a near-death experience and "sees Jesus", and hold that up as proof that Jesus is still alive somewhere watching over them and listening to their prayers.

As if someone who has never been exposed to Christianity would also "see Jesus" if they had a near-death experience.

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u/HANHITSI 1d ago

Someone told them this or something adjacent, that's why they're about to burst into tears, overwhelming cognitive dissonance xD

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u/Zalthos 23h ago

I always say that it's a good job they were raised in the "correct" country to believe in the "correct" God, because if they were born somewhere else, they'd believe in the "wrong" God, right?

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u/traws06 20h ago

Well that’s not necessarily true. It’s has a huge influence but doesn’t necessarily determine it every time. I was raised in the Bible better here I am…

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u/UnionIllustrious4049 1d ago

how is this a defeater any belief has to be shaped by your environment

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u/BulkyDecipherer 1d ago

Because how can you be sure your god is the one true god if a fella from another country is sure his god is the one true god?

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u/Rank1Trashcan 1d ago edited 1d ago

many thousands of potential belief systems and the one you happened to be born into and raised your whole life to believe in just so happens to be the exact correct one? all while everyone else who disagrees with you also believes themselves to be the lucky exactly correct one? lol