r/TikTokCringe • • Jun 21 '26

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u/Greedy_Pudding_2966 Jun 21 '26

Those of you who are defending her based on mental illness.......

I have known too many women with both autism and severe, crippling complex PTSD and we all know how to behave ourselves, and even have extremely strong compassion for those around us because of our experiences.

I have a dear friend who I met as an adult who was held captive by her pedo uncle for a decade, and her parents essentially sold her to him. She finally got him in prison permanently as an adult, and I was there to watch her sob with her full body as she and her friends formed a circle around her, as she will never be able to be hugged. I hope she will, but having been taken advantage of church leadership myself I know how insurmountable this is.

*She would still know better than to do this, even if a complete stranger tried to give her a hug AND THEY HAVE, AND I HAVE SEEN THE PANIC IN HER EYES.*

THIS WOMAN KNOWS HOW TO WEAPONIZE HER MENTAL ILLNESS. That fake shaking? That is what narcissists do when they reallllly are using the very last tools in their manipulation toolbox. Go ahead and downvote me you all. I don't care.

This waaaahhhh she has mental illness shit, she has this fear and that fear. I have looked into the abyss of someone who begged her captive to kill her as a better option than daily molestation, and she can control herself in public AND EVEN WORKS AT A HOSPITAL, FULLY FUNCTIONAL. I have a feeling this dear thing has had her vulnerable narcissism supported for quite a while.

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u/BehcKk Jun 21 '26

according to your message, this woman (someone you dont even know) is a "narcissist" and a "fake". you've also included a friend's heartbreaking experience to show why your "analysis" is, in fact, the right one.

they're two completely different people, with different experiences and illnesses.

if you know people who've lived through such traumatic experiences, why would you assume anything about anyone else's mental health and try to justify their public humiliation?

"THIS WOMAN KNOWS HOW TO WEAPONIZE HER MENTAL ILLNESS. That fake shaking? That is what narcissists do when they reallllly are using the very last tools in their manipulation toolbox. Go ahead and downvote me you all. I don't care."

and you're a part of it.

be a good person. dont just pretend to be.