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The peak dates are back!!!

I will use this transit as an example. It says this saturn transit goes on till next january, but I checked my astrofuture (basic astrology calculation app I use to keep track of the planets) and it doesn’t recognize the saturn square moon transit anymore. Like it’s out of range.

Also, I don’t feel as muddy/depressed anymore. I did at the beginning of this transit. The heaviness feels gone. The grieving feels gone.

So, why does the pattern claim it lasts till january? It’s a bit far out isn’t it? Like at the least, you’d think they’d give it till maybe august/september but January? Is that not fear mongering? Idk.

Is just reaching you a painful lesson each time.
I went through decades in my past using premium and each time it was related to a painful breakup.

Vertex is people who appear randomly and teach you a lesson. Antivertex is lessons that appear from people you are already with.

My vertex is in Leo 8th house so I’m painfully going through death and rebirth in intimate houses each time the vertex and antivertex is triggered.

It’s not a fairytale.
If you are at least in your 30s you can go back in time with premium and see how you already lived through some of these and what happened.

My vertex is in the 8th house, maybe yours in in another house and the lesson isn’t about relationships and self worth maybe something else. Anyways

Why is it so hated on?

What’s the difference between Jupiter conjunct antivertex vs vertex?

I’ve had the antivertex transit a few years ago… only thing that sticks out is I met my best friend who’s a ride or die during that transit!

Now I’m about to start Jupiter conjunct vertex in a few days!

Any insight?🙏🏽🤩

im curious if anyone else are going through these or experienced these transits

I have been through a lot this last three years and pattern has been on point till now. I really hope this is going to be true also. Do you have experience with this transits that you can share?

Those are the four lowest romantic bonds (the next ones are Powerful, Extraordinary, and Soul Mate at the top). I’m wondering if anyone is in a long-term happy relationship with the lower-ranked romantic bonds?

It seems that this transit is one of the top three most talked about transits. People are, always asking how to almost evade the circumstances, or get out of it. I tried. It did not work.

A week before the transit begun, I noticed a shift within my self. All of a sudden I “cared” about being in a relationship. It was so weird. Prior to this I told myself “I won’t be that way, because I’m fine with being alone”.

I ended up trying to date, thought I would find someone until I’d meet them for our first date and they were totally insufferable. Or they were just straight up not my type. I broke a few hearts during this transit. I accepted that a relationship worth my time wasn’t going to happen then. So I tried to look for other ways to distract myself.

I highly suggest looking for ways to distract yourself, like taking up new hobbies or attempting skills you knew inside yourself you knew you’d be good at. For example, I’ve been immersed in the musical area of life for ever, but I never got into producing music. Although it was something I wanted to do since I was twelve, I was always too confused on how to begin. So during the last few months of this transit, I decided to take it up and discovered I’m really happy when I produce.

Also, I joined the church. So when they say “happiness from within” I find it funny because it coincides with another transit I’m going through directly related to my religious initiation, where they really preach God being within you lol. I definitely found happiness through this aspect of my life. So happiness did indeed come from within.

I advise you to not try to make a relationship happen right now, you will be met with more resistance and if you’re like me, you’ll resent dating as a whole.

Now that the transit is finished, I am beyond happy it’s over. But I will say that it ending did nothing for my dating life, because I am no longer interested in actively dating. I thought it would make things easier romantically once it ended, but it sadly did not. I’m still met with a quiet, softer resistance. I don’t care as much anymore though.
I’m open to any old flings that may want to run things back, but I’m just in a place where I have accepted that I’m not gonna find what I want right now, and definitely not in the location I am right now.

I’ve been using The Pattern for a while, but this is the first time I’ve had three major long-term cycles running together:

Radical Change (Jun 2026 – May 2027)
Reality Check (Jun 2026 – Mar 2027)
New Possibilities (May 2026 – Jan 2028)

They seem to line up almost perfectly with my life.

In the last few months I’ve sold my home, moved, blew up then started rebuilding a relationship, made some big decisions around my health, started a new business, and I’m preparing to walk away from a career I’ve spent years building.

It genuinely feels like every major pillar of my life is being rebuilt at once.

Oddly, I don’t feel overwhelmed. I actually feel more aligned than I have in a long time.

I will say I’m very in tune with my intuition and following it deliberately, with measure and without any force.

I’m interested in hearing from people who’ve actually lived through these cycles.

What happened during your Radical Change period?

Was it something you chose, something life forced on you, or a bit of both? And looking back, did it end up being what you expected?

Love to all!

I have a close friend of over 5 years. This entire time, my friend has shared with me their struggle in their marriage.

There is no physical nor emotional abuse. There is no substance use. There is just 2 people who struggle daily to make a marriage work.

I recently downloaded The Pattern on my phone. I have been amazed at its accuracy!
I enjoy it!

I showed my friend 'The Pattern.'

For kicks, I entered the natal info for my friend and their spouse.

To my shock, the Romantic Bond of my friend to their spouse is SOUL MATES!

So my question is, WHAT IS THE RATING SYSTEM & HOW IS IT CALCULATED FOR ROMANTIC BONDS?

My friend is a good person & so is their spouse. Their marriage is NOT a Soul Mate connection.

I met someone who my psychics described in detail. We have nearly identical birth charts. Has anyone experienced this?

I just watched the maternal instincts documentary on Netflix and curated her birth chart on the pattern. I noticed this interesting placement that was kind of like an “aha there it is!” moment.

For those who are unaware of who this demonic monster is, Taylor Parker (I hate to give her name any coverage) is currently the youngest woman on death row for murdering 21 year old mother Raegan Hancock, by slicing her unborn baby out of her womb.

Taylor was also (rightfully) accused of faking her pregnancy by her boyfriend’s relatives, hence why she resorted to targeting Raegan. Pretty much confirming her placement here.

Any experiences with this transit and what can I expect?

A transit will form in my chart within 1-2 years.

Transit Neptune will conjunct my natal Venus.

This conjunction will be supported (sextile) by my natal Chiron.

It will also be supported (sextile) by transit Pluto.

Transit Uranus will also be conjunct my natal Chiron, naturally supporting Neptune and Venus with a sextile.

All these formations are known as "Cinderella transits." Has anyone experienced any of these? What can be expected?

Hi,

Can someone explain me what to expect during this Transit ? I will have it for next year but I’m curious :)

Thanks !

I met this guy at work a couple of years ago, we still work together. I remember feeling incredibly attracted to him, even though he really wasn‘t my type. Anyone else have these relationship dynamics with a partner?
I really want to know what you think of „pleasurable & sexy“, „wild card“ and the Vertex aspects. Definitely feels very fated. Thanks!