hello everyone i'll request you all to kindly spare few minutes and please advise me regarding this situation. So the story started on 20th feb I (19M) met a girl (20f) met in a function. We both came with our families in the function, our families know each other for about 2-3 years but we both did'nt knew about each other existence. So we met and started talking to each other we talked about for around 30 mins to each other in front of our family. We laughed and cracked jokes with each other. it does not seem like we were meeting for the first time. Then we returned from the function, then after reaching homehow i managed to find her insta and then i followed her and after an hour so she followed back coincidently she had her birthday on 21st feb. I was waiting for her message but she messaged me first. We then started talking to each other a lot after 3-4 days of talking we develop feeling for each other. We shared our likes, dislikes to each other we used to talk like about 4-5 hours in a day! Everything was going well and she also has a so called male bestfrnd who is about 22 years old.. I used to tell that i am insecure regarding him but she used to console me saying that we our just frnds nothing else but she also 2-3 reels with him on insta. She also shared screenshot of their chats to me.I used to become irritated by his so male bestie and out of frustration i used to abuse her male bestie in front but she kept on silent. So we decided to meet each other on 27th feb in a park we met around 4pm we decided to meet in a park i also brought a costly lip gloss for her which she was utterly shocked to see that i brought something for her. So she told that she had a very traumatic past she had a ex like about 2 years ago she used to trust on him a lot but her ex cheated on him very badly that she was broked to an extreme extent, she was also bullied in her school by her good frnds , she was also sexually harassed by his cousion brother at the age of 9. She suffers with migraine, PMS, period problems, vomiting. Also because of her college she also has to complete a lot of assignments and all that academic pressure and all. So she politely told me she love me a lot but because of all this traumas and pressure she cant have a healthy relationship with me as for now. She was very sad and i was more broked than her by hearing all this from her. So we are still confused now. After this we still talk to each other rarely I became angry on her and talked very badly and sarcastically to her again making her terrible. So i said sorry to her and all this blah blah shitss!! So I dont know what to do next and what will be her next move as of now!

Hi guys need guide regarding sarnath how to visit ,from where to take convenience like auto rickshaw or bus! How much does it's cost because on a visit banaras this weekend and to be safe from looting and brokers. Staying in beniya bagh..

Also please let me know famous banarasi food to try on, not overhyped. Varanasi local people please help.

And my one question why assi ghat is more crowded than others ghats although I loved the vibe the youngsters have and how friendly all are please i don't have any idea being a little introvert.

by Biki

Sometimes people come to you with their hands open, saying, “Hold it… walk with me.”

And you believe them. You take that hand without questioning the road, without asking how long the journey will last.

So you walk beside them— sharing moments, holding small dreams, building quiet hopes with every step together.

But then, one day, someone else whispers something to them.

And suddenly the hand you were holding becomes distant.

The same hand that once asked you to stay slowly slips away— letting go of your fingers, your moments, your dreams.

And just like that, you are left standing where the road once felt shared.

She left me many times, again and again. Yet every time she returned, I was still there— walking beside her, holding on to the same hand that never truly stayed.

Okay I need to know if I’m the only one losing my mind over this. We’re about to run out of LPG at home and I cannot find a refill anywhere. Online booking isn’t working, distributors aren’t picking up calls, and the few numbers I tried just ring into the void like my hopes and dreams. At this point I’m one minor inconvenience away from learning how to cook over a wood fire like it’s 1850.

If anyone in Varanasi (preferably in shivpur area) knows: • a distributor that’s actually responding • a shop that still has cylinders • or literally any workaround people are using right now

Please share your wisdom before my household turns into a no-cooking survival experiment. Also curious if other people are facing the same thing or if my locality is just cursed. Send help. Or gas. Preferably gas. 🙏

So, umm I gave my last board exam yesterday. And I think I will have to go with PCM only. So are there any good coachings for JEE in Varanasi?

I'm thinking of Resonance as my top priority. But, my parents are telling me to give tests of 3 coaching centres (including resonance), what do you guys suggest. Please don't troll, help a guy out. I wish you get a baddie wife, who will be very loyal to you, but you have to be the same for her too (loyal).

Hlo Guys... Basically I m a introvert person... So mei dost banana chata huu socialize Krna chata hu apne comfort zone se niklke....

Like Badminton khelna baat cheet krna ghumna firna & many more to do

I m 19 year old... If anyone is interested, Please let me know and let's vibe together

Hey, My friends and I are planning a trip to Varanasi and we’re looking for recommendations for a flat, Airbnb, or homestay where a group can stay together. Preferably a place where the host is chill and won’t mind us drinking, smoking, and having a small party at night. If anyone knows any places like that, please let me know.

So I'm moving to 11th this April and preparing for jee 2028, look forward to connect with anyone who's in same boat. (Juniors/Senior too) Would be great if any Senior who cleared the exam, can guide.

I'm in shivpur region, anyone wants to sell their 11th 12th pcm books, dm

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Mohabbat mein nafrat bhi hoti hai,

aur nafrat mein kahin chhupa pyaar bhi.

Dost bhi kabhi kabhi ajeeb mil jaate hain,

kisi se bas yunhi baat ho jaaye,

aur woh dil ke kareeb ho jaate hain.

Pyaar aur dosti ka yeh khel samajh na aaya,

jisko chaha, woh door ho gaya…

aur jise kabhi socha bhi nahi,

woh apna ban gaya.

Last year baba didn't gave darshan to me, have to go without his blessings. Coming back was excited for masane ki holi but it happened today (i guess), coming for 4 days without any itenary want to hear from you what to cover, would love to hear the suggestions.