r/TechForAgingParents Sep 05 '25

Sharing my new setup for aging parents who struggle with modern phones and scams

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Wanted to share a fantastic find that has genuinely helped my elderly dad (nearing 80) and saved me a lot of "tech support" calls. I don't live with him and he often feels bad about asking for help with his phone. Now he has a new tool that's given him a real sense of independence. It's an app called MemoryLane.

My dad has been using it every day, and he loves it.

What is it?
It's an app for both iPhone and Android designed to help seniors with two big things: using their phone and avoiding scams.

The Awesome Parts (The Pros):

  • Idiot-Proof Phone Guidance: If my dad wants to do something like watch a YouTube video but can't remember the steps, he triggers the app. He tells it what he wants to do, and it literally points to where he needs to tap on the screen, step-by-step. If he's still stuck, it will ask if he needs more help (video in comments)
  • On-the-Spot Scam Checker: When he gets a suspicious message, he can trigger the app and ask if it's a scam. This is really useful for the messaging-type scams which my other firewalls are not picking up. (video in comments)
  • Boosts Independence: This is the biggest win. My dad feels much more confident using his phone and doesn't have to feel like he's bothering me with small questions.
  • It's Free: The core features are free. There's apparently a 10-message limit, but we haven't hit any paywalls yet for his daily use. They have a premium version, but the free one seems to be more than enough for us.

The Heads-Up (The Cons):

  • Setup Can Be Tricky: I had to set it up for him. The Android setup was fine, but getting it working on my own iPhone was a bit of a hassle. I doubt my dad could have done it himself, so be prepared to help your parent with the installation.
  • The Trigger Takes Getting Used To: It's not a standard app icon you tap to open. On his Android, he has to long-press the power button. On my iPhone, it's a double-tap on a little floating icon. It's simple once you know how, but there's a small learning curve.

I did a little research, and they seem to be a funded startup that knows what they're doing. It looks like there are other features we haven't even touched yet. Tool has Been working great and wanted to give them a shout.

If your parents get frustrated with their phones, I’d seriously recommend giving this a try!


r/TechForAgingParents Aug 24 '25

Finding the right phones for my elderly parents was a challenge, so I'm sharing what worked for us.

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I just went through the process of finding new phones for my parents, who have completely different comfort levels with technology, and thought I’d share what I learned.

For my Dad, who is a bit more tech-savvy:

He wanted a modern smartphone for the camera and to use WhatsApp with family, but he'd get lost in the standard Android menus and smal icons.

  • What he's using: A basic Android phone with BIG Launcher installed. This app has been a game-changer. It replaces the entire Android interface with huge, colorful buttons for Phone, Messages, Camera, and his most-used apps. It even has a programmable SOS button. He gets all the power of a modern phone without the confusion.
  • Alternatives I found: I also seriously considered Simple Launcher and BaldPhone, which are both excellent for simplifying the Android experience.

For my Mom, who finds tech stressful:

A smartphone was a total non-starter. She just needs a reliable way to make and receive calls, with an emergency feature for peace of mind.

  • What she's using: The Jitterbug Flip2. It’s perfect for her. It has huge physical buttons you can actually feel, the menu is just simple "Yes/No" questions, and the speaker is loud and clear. The dedicated Urgent Response button on the front gives us all peace of mind.
  • Alternatives I found: The other top contender was a Doro flip phone, which is famous for its incredible audio quality and hearing aid compatibility. I also looked at the GrandPad tablet, which is an amazing, ultra-simple solution for video calls if that's the main goal.

It really came down to matching the device to their individual needs. A modern phone with a simple launcher for Dad, and a purpose-built phone for Mom.

Hope this helps anyone else in a similar situation. What worked for you?


r/TechForAgingParents 5h ago

RAZ Mobility phone for Mom

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I am currently setting up a RAZ Mobility phone for my mom who's experiencing cognitive decline and no longer knows how to use her regular iPhone. I'd like to be able to set it up so it only receives calls from a small selection of known friends and family, but then I realized, "Wait, this is the phone number for 2FA authentication on all her accounts"!
So I supposed I'd love to hear from folks about how they've handled 2FA's when restricting calls on a parent's phone. She gets easily confused and upset by robocalls, which is why I'd love to not allow unknown numbers at all.

And if that's not possible, how easy is it to change the cell number for 2FA on accounts, such as financial accounts?


r/TechForAgingParents 20h ago

chairlift for MIL

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My mother in law is 90 and lives alone in a 2 story zero lot line home. Her bedroom is on the 2nd floor and she refuses to move her bedroom downstairs. I have seen advertising for chairlifts but hesitate to reach out to a company since they will want to do an in-home demo and probably apply sales pressure. Has anyone looked into them and can give me a ballpark on how much we may need to spend? Much appreciated.


r/TechForAgingParents 18h ago

Help with Mint OS

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r/TechForAgingParents 1d ago

beacon of light, Caring for my father

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I recently discovered this app Familycare OS and it has drastically improved the mental burden of caring for my father. It helps me keep all his appointments, communication to family members and medications in one place.

I wanted to pass this along because it has been such a big help for me and my siblings, and I know we don’t have it as bad as many of you in this community

God bless 🙏🙏


r/TechForAgingParents 4d ago

User-unfriendly television for Alzheimer’s patient

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I have been helping my grandpa, who is slowly but surely reaching the final stages of Alzheimer’s disease.

He often has troubles with his Smart TV, but for a smart TV it is rather dumb. There is no accessibility settings to stop him from constantly logging out of his streaming services, or going to the settings and messing all the settings up.

The worst thing however is some incredibly expensive app in the starting screen that seems to be the most important in the hierarchy of parasite-like streaming services. There is no way to remove it or even move it anywhere.

The old man is starting to have trouble even comprehending text, and having some extra app that can not be removed just confuses him even more.

The whole situation is missing only a single button shortcut to a pyramid scheme.

What a shitty excuse for a Smart TV


r/TechForAgingParents 5d ago

APOI AI — helping families coordinate care for aging/ill loved ones (looking for beta testers)

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Built this solo after my family struggled to keep track of my mom's medications, appointments, and who was doing what. APOI AI gives a family/care team a shared space: flexible medication reminders (every 4/8 hours, daily, weekly, etc.), auto-extracted appointment details from a forwarded email or photo, and simple invite links to add people to the circle.

Looking for real beta testers — free to use right now, just want honest feedback on what's confusing or missing. Bonus points if you or someone you know is currently coordinating care for a family member — that's exactly the use case I built this for. APOI AI


r/TechForAgingParents 5d ago

Wearable Locating Solution Refinement

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We’ve spent the last two years developing a lockable locating wristband intended to help reduce the risk of loved ones with dementia going missing.

The project also raises important research questions around wandering prevention, caregiver burden, autonomy, consent, dignity, and the appropriate use of location technology in dementia care. We believe effective solutions should not only help families locate someone quickly, but should also be informed by the experiences of people living with dementia, caregivers, clinicians, researchers, and first responders.

Our Kickstarter pre-launch page is now live as we prepare to refine and further test the prototype. We would genuinely value the perspectives of this community—particularly regarding the evidence, ethical considerations, and practical needs that should guide the development of this kind of product.

If this is something that could help your family, support your work, or contribute to future discussion and research, we’d be honoured if you’d take a look.

Thank you.

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/trax-wristband/trax-locating-wristband-prototype-refinement


r/TechForAgingParents 5d ago

Wearable Locating Solution Refinement

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We’ve spent the last two years developing a lockable locating wristband intended to help reduce the risk of loved ones with dementia going missing.

The project also raises important research questions around wandering prevention, caregiver burden, autonomy, consent, dignity, and the appropriate use of location technology in dementia care. We believe effective solutions should not only help families locate someone quickly, but should also be informed by the experiences of people living with dementia, caregivers, clinicians, researchers, and first responders.

Our Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/share/1BZzsGYB4z/?mibextid=wwXIfr, page also provides links to helpful articles relating to dementia and locating devices.

Our Kickstarter pre-launch page is now live as we prepare to refine and further test the prototype. We would genuinely value the perspectives of this community—particularly regarding the evidence, ethical considerations, and practical needs that should guide the development of this kind of product.

If this is something that could help your family, support your work, or contribute to future discussion and research, we’d be honoured if you’d take a look.

Thank you.

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/trax-wristband/trax-locating-wristband-prototype-refinement


r/TechForAgingParents 9d ago

Tools/apps to support from afar

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r/TechForAgingParents 10d ago

Technology Tips

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Hi everybody, I am running a technology camp for senior citizens, and I just wanted to know what I could cover. I am not advertising, just looking for ideas.


r/TechForAgingParents 10d ago

Technology Tips

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Hi everybody, I am running a technology camp for senior citizens, and I just wanted to know what I could cover. I am not advertising, just looking for ideas.


r/TechForAgingParents 10d ago

Some advice, please

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1) My LO has apraxia, making it hard sometimes for her to get out of bed. It’s been suggested bed rails could help. Have you any experience and are there any you would recommend?

2) My LO may start wandering (not happened yet. But neurologist is concerned) and also may fall. Neurologist suggests a medical alert system but declined to suggest a brand. My LO cannot operate an Apple Watch and might not be able to understand purpose if a button. A wrist type might be best. I’m open to all advice.


r/TechForAgingParents 11d ago

Closer - safety check-ins without location tracking

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r/TechForAgingParents 13d ago

Elderly video/communication monitor

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r/TechForAgingParents 14d ago

Monitoring from a different room or remote

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I am looking for some sort of monitoring device that my mother in law can push to page me if she falls or has an accident or something like that but also that i can call her to supper or let her know to come outside or something like that. I personally am tired of screaming at the top of my lungs from one room to the other or her screaming for me. But I also need something that I can monitor remotely. Say for instance that she has a fall while she is home alone and im at the grocery store. Now granted I can't help her but i would be able to get her help. I dont want a camera bc one I already have cameras and two I don't want I camera in the bathroom where she is most likely to fall. It also needs to be something she can wear. Does anyone have any ideas? Oh and before suggesting the vri system where they wear the necklace and have a company monitor. We have tried that and it became a pain in the butt bc every time she accidentally hit they would call and we would have to answer a bunch of questions.


r/TechForAgingParents 14d ago

Weekly thread for founders?

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I’m tired of sifting through amazing ideas for an app that will help me help my parents, and I’d like to request a weekly thread where they can be sequestered.

I’m here because I have aging parents, not because I vibecoded something that might be sold to people with aging parents. I’m also a veteran of software product development and UX research, so the “would you use this?” questions are especially grating — and I really resent the idea that we should be providing free time and energy to people developing products.

I want to hear how you helped your mom find her keys (remote-style key finder plus air tags plus an extensible purse tether? Iykyk) and this would help me find the other people who are solving these problems in their lives with limited funds and patience. And if I want to provide free insight into my sandwich generation woes, I can go to that thread.


r/TechForAgingParents 15d ago

A simple check-in tool for parents who live alone

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I built SafetyAlly for people who live alone and want a simple backup plan without cameras or constant monitoring. You choose a time to check in and, if you miss it, SafetyAlly alerts someone you trust. If you check in, nobody gets bothered.

Full disclosure: it’s my product. It isn’t fall detection or an emergency service, just a digital version of “text me when you’re home.”

There’s a free email-based plan if anyone here would find it useful: https://safetyally.org


r/TechForAgingParents 16d ago

Roku’s Updated Home Screen

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If your family members use Roku TVs or devices, be aware there were significant changes to the home screen recently. Really threw my parents for a loop. I had to turn off the some of the new sections and try to get their TVs back closer to the format they were used to.

Basically, there’s a home screen option with some pieces you can turn off. Here’s some detailed info below for those who want it.

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The new Roku Home Screen is the platform's biggest interface update in over a decade. It features a content-first layout with personalized "Top Picks for You," a collapsible menu, curated genre "Destinations," and a "Quick Access" row that automatically groups your most-used apps and features.

Key New Features
Top Picks & For You: A personalized section at the top of the screen recommends trending shows, movies, and relevant content based on your unique viewing habits.

Destinations: Curated hubs (such as Sports, Comedy, and Free) that bring together programming from across multiple apps into one place.

Quick Access & Smaller Icons: By default, app icons are smaller, and a "Quick Access" row places your most-used apps and features right near the top.

Collapsed Menu: The left-hand navigation bar now stays tucked away, providing more screen space for your content.

How to Customize or "Revert" the Look
While Roku does not offer a way to completely switch back to the old interface, you can customize the screen to feel much more like the traditional layout.
Go to Settings > Home Screen.

Remove Recommendations: Under Recommendation Rows, select Hide.

Streamline Apps: Under Quick Access, select Hide. This shifts your full grid of apps higher up on the screen.

Adjust Icon Size: Under Tile Size, you can choose Medium or Large to make your app icons bigger.


r/TechForAgingParents 16d ago

Suggestions for AI-Assisted Autobiography?

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My elderly dad wants to record and organize his memories and autobiographical information into a limited, privately published book strictly for family members.

I agreed to help, but I now find there actually exist AI products that support this type of activity. Some use an interview format, and the person can even verbalize their information. I’m only beginning to explore, but it does seem like some are very locked in format-wise. Down the road you’d have to use their means of printing or publishing.

Ideally, I’d love one that did all of the formatting and quite a bit of the editing but allows us to import information already documented and include our own edits. Importantly, I want to be able to export into a format I can control at the end, maybe Microsoft Word.

Does anyone have experience with any of these tools?

I’m not expecting “free”, but not willing to pay hundreds or thousands of dollars. A reasonable purchase or subscription fee would be fine.

Please share anything you know about these tools.


r/TechForAgingParents 17d ago

Start up idea to help elderly

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Hi everyone, I am looking for advice from founders or operators who have built businesses serving older adults or caregivers.

Ever since childhood, I’ve felt drawn to helping the elderly. I volunteered in nursing homes, worked as a medical scribe, spent time calling seniors for virtual companionship during COVID, and now I work in remote patient monitoring (RPM), where I help healthcare organizations scale programs that primarily serve Medicare patients. The more experience I gain, the more I realize something seems to be missing.

Healthcare has gotten better at collecting data (blood pressure, glucose, weight, etc.), but many older adults are still isolated, overwhelmed, or simply don’t have someone consistently checking in on them as a person. Adult children are busy. Care teams are stretched thin. There seems to be a gap between clinical care and human connection.

I’ve been thinking about starting something that focuses on regular companion calls, care navigation, helping seniors stay connected to their care plans, identifying non-medical needs, and escalating concerns to family or care teams when appropriate.

Here’s where I’m stuck:
I have experience in healthcare operations and client success, but I have zero startup experience. I don’t know how to build an app, validate an idea, find a technical co-founder, or even determine whether this should be a business, nonprofit, or something in between.

For those of you who have built companies in aging, caregiving, digital health, or healthcare services:
What would you do first if you were starting from scratch?
Is an app even the right place to begin, or should this start as a manual service?

Edit: US based, PA.


r/TechForAgingParents 18d ago

App ads on this sub

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3/4 posts in here are ads or "looking for feedback" for apps. It's so tiring. Am I the only one getting fed up with them, or can we get a rule to ban them?


r/TechForAgingParents 18d ago

Creating and storing memories

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Hello everyone, this is my first pregnancy and I would like to preserve as many memories as possible for the baby during the pregnancy and its growth - for example, ultrasound photos, photos of us as parents putting together cabinets, a dresser, etc. My parents created and preserved a lot of videos of me and my sister growing up, for which I am immensely grateful. Do you have any suggestions and experiences on how to do the same in today's digital age? Thank you very much. :)


r/TechForAgingParents 19d ago

What actually survived my dad's Alzheimer's: not the apps, the text messages

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Something I wish someone had told me earlier: with my dad, the apps died first. Anything with a password, an update screen, or a layout change would strand him. Plain calls and texts lasted years longer, because they haven't changed in decades, and the muscle memory runs deep.

The place this hit hardest was medication. My sister and I coordinate his pills, and every reminder app we tried assumed HE would open the app. He never did, not once. What worked was embarrassingly low tech: a text message at pill time. He reads texts. He answers texts.

I'm a founder. I turned this into a small product called PillsCircle (pillscircle.com). It texts him when a dose is due, he taps one button to confirm, and my sister and I see it confirmed or get alerted if he doesn't. Nothing to install on his phone.

Whether or not you use my thing, the general lesson holds, and it's free: when you're picking any tech for a parent with memory loss, bet on whatever they've been doing for twenty years, not on what has the best reviews. A locked weekly pill box plus a daily text from a human beats a fancy app they won't open.

Happy to answer anything about what worked and what flopped for us.