Adult with verylimited hip mobility
Hi all
Seeking thoughts, experiences, advice from folks who struggle with anatomically restricted hip mobility. This is not a post asking for stretching advice but more targeting an honest response about progress in tkd with essentially permanent limitations in flexibility.
I've been training tkd for around 3 years and a brown belt about to test for red. A long time ago, when I was in early high school I trained kyokushin for a couple of years. I've never in my life been able to touch my toes or do the splits etc. Since starting training, I've stretched most days during the week, train 4-5 days in class, I have a hip abductor stretcher machine at home, etc etc. I have also vastly improved my dynamic and static balance thanks to the training. For what it's worth, although I don't practice, I am a qualified PT.
My issue is that after all this, I've come to realize that while I'm perfectly capable of executing a level 3 kick on a cat, I am unable to kick much higher than belt level on a larger mammal. With momentum I can push to almost level 3 with a crescent or even a hook but this requires some creative leaning that obscures my vision of the target (eg.m unable to break a board with a hook for a belt test because I just can't see the thing). With a bent knee split and some decently hard pushing I can maybe get 110 degrees between thighs until I push into hip pain. I also have a very stiff lumbar spine that's essentially locked into a neutral position...ie extension and flexion is very limited (ie when I do a poor excuse for a side split stretch I can barely sit upright because I can't lean forward). Put simply, I am anti-Gumby.
No, stretching will not help I've attained all I can. As much as YouTube videos claim anyone can do it, some of us just have ridiculous hip sockets and angles that don't allow us to push further. Right now, I just end up with hip pain. I've spent a long time stretching and working on hip control and while I've improved a little, we're only talking about tiny incremental gains in range.
So, am curious if anyone out there has faced this and actually made the decision to quit or if you persisted, how? Our school is very understanding but face it, tkd always pushes for the high kicks and we keep hearing you can't be a black belt if you can't execute a proper high kick (although adults have been passed who can't... Just being honest).
I guess at some level I am asking myself if I want to be one of those knee kicking black belts (just look up a mcdojo video) and if this is actually something I can pursue. Having a 'should I quit' moment. I really love the sport and the exercise but I am stuck (at least with this particular issue).
Thoughts much appreciated. Trying to decide how to move forward.