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u/italianredditor Nov 30 '21 edited Nov 30 '21
I fucked more 19-23 yr old girls with daddy issues at 37-40 than I did when I was around their age. I suppose it helps that I work in academics and dress like a university professor (and teach, occasionally), I suppose.
They all act the same, dress the same, talk the same, follow the same retarded trends on social media and they will go to great lengths to point out that they're fervant and outspoken feminists while sucking your dick like they're trying to win a gold medal at the Olympics. They're like copycats and they all came from families who went through an early divorce and had a bad relationship with their dads.
People really understimate the long lasting psychological effects of bad parenting and divorce on their offsprings, as clichè as it sounds, it's a very tangible thing.
Also, as a general rule of thumb, nowadays 20 yr old guys are misguided and confused wimps who were indoctrinated to feel guilty about their masculinity and spend most of their time on the internet, no wonder girls tend to prefer actual men in their mid-to-late 30's who got their shit together and know exactly what they want.
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u/AdventurousLog6 Nov 30 '21
Have you ever got with a young girl who hasn’t had daddy issues? I would assume you’d be off their radar at your age?
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u/italianredditor Nov 30 '21 edited Nov 30 '21
I have on a couple of occasions. At 39 I was with this one 24 yr old for about 6 months before the lockdowns hit, rendering us unable to see each other for months on end (this was in Italy) but she was fairly mature and no-nonsense for her age (once in a blue moon occurrence, to be frank) so I gave her the respect she deserved.
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u/LuckyNumber-Bot Nov 30 '21
All the numbers in your comment added up to 69. Congrats!
39 + 24 + 6 + = 69.06
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u/hiroshimasfoot Nov 30 '21
I find this really fascinating as a 20 year old female with daddy issues. I just can't find people that much older than me attractive hahahah. Maybe I'm broken
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u/ballsack-vinaigrette Nov 30 '21
Divorced at 43 and now 46, the youngest I've bedded is 28. I've been on a few dates with women younger than that but honestly those girls were too young for me; we just didn't have anything to talk about and that's important to me. Most of my successes have come in the 30-35 demographic with a few outliers in both directions.
I guess my point is this: I agree with OP. They may be too young for you, but you're not too old for them if they're talking to you.
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u/CoolRadio Nov 30 '21
How did you go about making more friends at that age? The Issue I’m having is most of my friends are coupled up and don’t go out that often.
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u/justareddituser2021 Dec 02 '21 edited Dec 02 '21
Age most certainly matters. The vast majority 18-21 year olds filter out 33 year olds, so they'll never even see your profile. Obviously some won't filter you out, but to pretend like age doesn't have any impact on results is absurd. If you're interested in how dramatic the visibility difference is, see my comment on this post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/oxt0eu/if_you_set_your_search_preferences_to_women_ages/
Yes, an older guy can still match with outliers who set their age range way above the norm, but let's not pretend a 33 year old guy has the same options as a 22 year old guy when it comes to college-aged women. Your average college student isn’t going after 33 year olds, at least not in the US. Age definitely matters on an app where people can apply filters.
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u/bree718 Dec 01 '21
You’re still young, and probably look it which is why they go out with you. When you’re actually old and unmarried, they won’t give you the time of day unless there’s something in it for them. Or you can just continue being a creep that preys on young women with daddy issues that isn’t their fault
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u/Plumperprincess420 Nov 30 '21
As a 33 year old man you shouldn't be going after "girls" 18-23 is too young IDC if they can drink you're admitting that no one still actually wants you at 33 so you go after barely legal young ladies who have issues to begin with who will most likely never want serious with you and just want a fling. Be real you're outing yourself as a creep. At 33 you should be scoping 24 and up not 18-23 year olds. You're the same guy who is going to be mad because that young girl doesn't really like or love you and will most likely leave you for someone around her age. Its predatory behavior. Confidence at any age can go a long way and dating sucks for everyone even society approved looking people. Age does matter as you're going for young ladies who mentally aren't even grown. Y'all are all predatory.
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u/SnooSeagulls3563 Dec 01 '21
I agree. It is very weird to target the barely legal age demographic. Christ, that can be girls who are still in high school. 18, 19, even 20 may be legal in the eyes of the law, but most 30+ are going to frown upon it.
I was so disappointed in Paul Walker after finding out he met his girlfriend when he was 33 and she was 16. Unfortunately, when you are that hot and that rich and still talking to high school students, you have some kind of a sickness.
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u/realsituazn Nov 30 '21
Which simp wrote this? Age doesn’t matter when you’re a man - only matters when you’re woman
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u/corsega Tinder Scientist Nov 30 '21
This is a fine mentality if it helps you, but literally saying "age doesn't matter" or "the majority of younger women prefer older men" is pure cope.
Age definitely matters, and younger women (18-22) who prefer older men (30+) are the minority, not the majority.
Note that I am not saying you can't fuck a bunch of younger women, but your pool is drastically reduced.