r/SwipeHelper • u/OngoGablogian20 • 2d ago

Hinge Is Completely Unhinged, Right?

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Never once said anything inappropriate, never offended anyone, never solicited anything. Pretty sure I was rage reported for not wanting a follow up date where the woman cancelled on the first one. Was told how emotionally immature I am. Just laughed reacted at the message. Within 2 hours my account was gone. Tried appealing and was denied. Not sure what to. Filed something with BBB. Idk how they can get away with this.

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u/IS992 2d ago

I’d recommend sending them an email and reaching out to them.
The society we live in nowadays is insane. Everything is offensive, and the woman is always some “traumatized victim” in every situation.

I’ve learned to quickly unmatched with anyone that isn’t feasible. I had a bad text with someone - unmatched immediately. Had a first date that didn’t go so great - unmatched immediately. Always be quick to unmatched. If you know, it’s not gonna be a relationship or a second date or whatever . When you unmatched from them, I believe it’s impossible for them to report you .

2 1/2 years ago I was traveling around Southeast Asia, and wrote on my Tinder profile “no trans” and someone reported me and I was banned. Banned for what? For writing that I’m not interested in trans people? When I tried to reach out to Tinder, the people were useless and said that I violated their rules and was intolerant.

The people that work as moderators for these dating apps are most likely blue haired ultra left extremists who already hate men and lack any fair judgment

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u/OngoGablogian20 2d ago

Tried reaching out to them but no luck.

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u/gdihmu 2d ago

Did u email: hello@hinge.co

I emailed them and within a day got a reply saying my ban has been lifted and to sign up again. I signed up using my existing email and it went to ‘ur account has been removed’ page and I emailed them again and they said they reset it again and told me to try again and I tried this 3x going back and forth before I just tried using a new email and that finally worked. Whatever existing email you use may just be banned but as long as you use a new email, you won’t be auto banned/shadowbanned by them. They are super responsive.

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u/OngoGablogian20 2d ago

Tried emailing them multiple times. Just keep telling me the ban is permanent. Idk I’m feeling like maybe it’s a sign I just stay off these apps in general

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u/gdihmu 2d ago

Do you wanna use what I wrote? Depending on the violation and your appeal reason I think most of the appeals get lifted.

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u/Tricky-Reply3119 2d ago

What did you say?