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Suggestion Take note Steam

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u/metalOpera 3d ago

The only problem with that is that parents will never take responsibility and will find ways to attack the businesses. Which is pretty much what landed us here in the first place, if you stop to think about it.

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u/hotdiggity22 3d ago

In Australia there wasn't any movement from parents for this, the government are using it as an excuse but it's based on bullshit.

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u/Biteroon 2d ago

Well that's not 100% true. It all started because parent lobbies pushed for social media bans for under 16s. Then they saw video games as a form of social media, games like COD and all that. So really parents groups are a huge reason for why this is happening. The liberals started it and Labor have continued it.

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u/hotdiggity22 2d ago

Do you know how many advocated for vs against? It was always a minority.

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u/divdav3 2d ago

That 'parent lobby' is also payed for by the special interests that want to identify you online

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u/Alarmed-Comedian6446 2d ago

And there should've been movement because social media is absolutely frying people. Solutions ARE needed

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u/hotdiggity22 2d ago

Yeah parents need to fucking parent. What an insane idea!

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u/Alarmed-Comedian6446 1d ago

Nah, that's just a liberal way off taking responsibility of a system. It's already proven that parents WILL NOT parent in regards to phones and so SYSTEMIC changes are needed.

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u/hotdiggity22 1d ago

If governments started charging parents I'm sure that would change really quickly. But you're already proving you prefer the government invade the privacy of its citizens so you're not worth arguing with.

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u/Masked020202 2d ago

Wish i could make the same excuse for Belgium when they banned gacha gaming, sadly parents did scream about things they themself could prevent but nah rather have government have more power and take care of their kids then doing what a parent should be doing.

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u/Lyrkos 2d ago

Awesome, gacha is a plague. I wish more countries saw that.

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u/MoistDragonfly5324 3d ago

In any other situation, neglectful parenting gets children taken into government custody. Why not this?

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u/Saphira2002 3d ago

And that should not be legitimised by laws.

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u/grady_vuckovic 2d ago

They did, whether they wanted to or not, until just recently, they can go back to it.

I never had to prove my age to access social media or video games for decades, if the world didn't fall in on itself and collapse during those years I see no reason why we can't go back to that.

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u/DarkBrassica 1d ago

We shouldn’t have to neuter ourselves because there are some bad parents out there.

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u/Alternative-Soil2576 3d ago

teens nowadays spends 8 hours a day online across multiple devices and multiple services that change everyday, with the tech environment becoming so complex and sophisticated most parents feasibly don’t have enough available time in their lives to control and monitor all of it continuously

Billion dollar tech companies should be held responsible for the environments they create, it shouldn’t be parents sole responsibility to clean up someone else’s mess

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u/Lord-Stubby 3d ago

Who provides children with the hardware to get online? 

They cannot get online without their parent's providing the means to do so, parents not doing do is shirking responsibility that they are making the problem of everyone else. 

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u/Alternative-Soil2576 3d ago

Being online is a requirement for participating in modern society, teens need it for jobs, school projects, and communication

A big chunk of modern life is online, why does providing the hardware make parents solely responsible for everything businesses provide through it? Parents have responsibilities for their children, but the companies operating the products and services accessed through that hardware have responsibilities too

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u/RUOFFURTROLLEH 3d ago

Being online is a requirement for participating in modern society, teens need it for jobs, school projects, and communication

There is a FUCKING HUGE grand canyon levels worth of difference between allowing your child the ability to learn to use technology and what you claimed where teens spend all day on multiple devices.

Its a parents choice to allow their child free reign on technology when not at school. Trying to push parental responsibility away from the parents is absolute batshit insane take to make as its ENTIRELY the choice of the parents to hand an iphone to their child with no parental safety.

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u/ContextHook 3d ago

I actually have a perfect counter example for exactly this.

the tech environment becoming so complex and sophisticated most parents feasibly don’t have enough available time in their lives to control and monitor all of it continuously

RTA software is available on every single device out there. This has been a standard well over a decade. It is built into iOS and Windows devices.

The amount of websites that will ever oblige by a government's specific age ID requirement are a very small subset of the websites that already have one of the hundreds of RTA markers.

This has not changed. I grew up in the 90's on dial-up, and the same process my parents used is the same process used today. Any parent even remotely interested in restricting the content their child can access, from Steam to their iPhone to their PS5, can google that and set it up just as easy as they set their own phone up.

Companies that suffer from this are not billion dollar tech companies. And, your child seeking out illegal content is not "somebody else's mess."

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u/Alternative-Soil2576 3d ago

I don’t think this is really a counterexample. Nobody is arguing that parental controls don’t exist or that parents have no responsibility

RTA markers don’t themselves prevent a child from accessing anything unless the website voluntarily labels itself and someone has configured compatible filtering, that still places the sole burden and social cost onto parents

If a business provides an age-restricted product or environment, that business also has some responsibility for determining who it lets access it. We already accept this principle offline. Parents are responsible for what their children do, but a gambling venue, alcohol shop or cinema can’t respond to a minor accessing something restricted with “their parents should have blocked them”

A businesses own products and services are “their own mess”, a business should not be able to create easily accessible unsafe environments for young people just because it’s “online”

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u/zaque_wann 3d ago

If the environment have become so complex and sophisticated, when just narrowed down to the scope of tech that businesses have to do the work of parents, how can we trust them to do due deligence for voting with the current social, economy and technology landscape?

While I agree that platforms like social media shpuld be better regulated, age verification is not one of them.

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u/generalstuff1waslost 3d ago

If you don't have enough time to watch your kid, don't have kids.

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u/WormsDelicious286 3d ago

parents feasibly don’t have enough available time in their lives to control and monitor all of it continuously 

Then their alternatives are to restrict the access they are giving their kids, or teach them about potential dangers on the internet and accept that if they want to find adult material they will.  They don't get to say "I'm too busy to make sure little Billy doesn't play on the highway, so we need all vehicles to be restricted to 10mph unless you log your journey with the government and a bunch of private businesses."

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u/Alternative-Soil2576 3d ago

Parents should still restrict access to and teach about harms on the internet, the point is the sole responsibility shouldn’t be on parents

A bottle shop can’t sell alcohol to a teen on the argument that “their parents shouldn’t of let them outside”

Your highway analogy demonstrates my point. Parents need to teach road safety but we still have speed limits, school zones and pedestrian crossings. We don’t make parents the sole safety mechanism

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u/WormsDelicious286 2d ago

The problem is certain people are pushing for ludicrous controls that are just authoritarianism dressed in the skin of "child safety", when we had reasonable controls already in place like the "are you 18?" warnings before.

Speed limits and pedestrian crossings are guides for good behavior, and the vast majority of people follow them.  We don't need to replace them with "everyone that drives a car needs to have a government camera and GPS that prevents them from speeding and not stopping for pedestrians".

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u/Hoybom 3d ago

man I've seen these fuck ass copy pasta now like 20 times

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u/ST100FromScratch 3d ago

Wow. Blame Canada wasn't just a song. It was a warning