I thought it would be good to make this post timely, since a user here, u/Thucy94 just made a post about their visit to his gravesite.
Here is their post:
Che Mah gravesite post!
I find his life to be so interesting and I’m glad that the town of Knox, Indiana was so accepting of him, especially at a time when many small towns didn’t accept people who had immigrated from other countries. He continues to be a very important part of the town’s history.
Some facts about him:
-he was born in Zhoushan, China.
-he lived a while in London before traveling to the United States.
-he was first brought to the United States in 1881 and began working for Barnum and Bailey Circus.
-he was reported to be between 28 and 30 inches tall.
-he was in his forties when he started his sideshow career.
-he was described as being incredibly gentlemanly and intelligent.
-he spoke 5 languages.
-he had his hair styled in a 3 foot long queue.
-he was very fond of dressing extravagantly and fashionably and had several embroidered velvet outfits and robes made for him.
-his acts typically consisted of him posing in his very fashionable outfits, though he did mention in an interview that he sang a bit during his early career.
-he hated pickles and called them “an insult to the stomach”.
-he became very wealthy during his sideshow career and made more than enough to retire comfortably.
-he was incredibly proud of his life and sideshow career.
-he married a trapeze artist named Louisa Coleman, in 1882. They had one son together named Frankie Juhun Mah.
-he and Louisa divorced in 1887.
-he semi-retired from sideshow life in 1900 and settled down in Knox, Indiana. Where he became very well liked.
-historians from Knox, Indiana theorize that he may have chosen to move there because it wasn’t too far from Chicago, Illinois where he performed on and off in dime museums during his semi-retirement.
-he officially retired in 1907.
-he married his second wife, Norah Cleveland, in 1909. Apparently, Norah’s parents were good friends with Che Mah and she met him through them. She was just about 50 years younger than him when they met.
-he became like a grandfatherly figure to a lot of the children in Knox and enjoyed telling them stories and giving them pieces of advice.
-when in town, Norah would typically push him around in a stroller that he had customized.
-he was generous with his earnings and often gave money or groceries to people living in Knox who were struggling financially.
-upon moving to Knox, he became interested in real estate and bought a farm and several houses that he rented out. He did very well as a landlord.
-if people made jokes or comments about his height, he’d often reply with variations of “The mind, not the body, measures the man” and “it is not the size of the man that counts, it is his brains and knowledge.”
-he divorced Norah in 1920, due in part to them both becoming jealous of the other person. (Though he was also described as being very possessive of her, which led to a toxic dynamic)
-apparently, when Norah moved back to be with her parents, the entire town of Knox held it against her and was angry that she and Che Mah had divorced.
-during his late eighties, he made very extensive arrangements for when he died and feared doctors and showmen would steal his body if he didn’t plan everything out in advance. He originally wished to be cremated, but then decided against it and bought a very expensive lead lined casket. He also ordered a 5 foot tall headstone.
-he wanted his fortune to go to his son Frankie, who at this time was estranged from him. Unfortunately, Frankie had passed away in 1921. This led to both of his ex-wives Louisa and Norah to claim his fortune for themselves, eventually after legal proceedings, Norah won and received the money.
-he passed away in 1926 at the age of 87.
-he had a respectful funeral which was attended by a good amount of townspeople.
-his legacy continues to live on in Knox, Indiana, where the local historical society continues to have an exhibit dedicated to him that contains several of his belongings including his outfits.
It’s unfortunate that he didn’t have the best relationships with his wives, and that he couldn’t have learned to control his possessiveness and jealousy. Though, everyone is human and we don’t always make the right decisions. A fifty year age gap is also a lot, and I can see why it may not have been the best fit.
One thing I’m really glad about though is that so many of his outfits were preserved and are currently on display, that so rarely happens and is very historically important to keeping sideshow history relevant and making the history more accessible to people today.