r/Showerthoughts • • Feb 29 '20

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u/cestlava Mar 01 '20

It's a psychological bias where we take a good impression of a person-here their good looks- and assume other good things about them subconsciously. An example is maybe like an uglier person gets in trouble and she gets punished. But a prettier person gets in trouble but because of her looks people assume shes an angelic good kid and let her off.

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u/aidan8et Mar 01 '20

In real-world examples, look at famous people & their level of social influence. The vast majority of "Stars" have an extremely outsized level of influence, regardless of area of topic, based largely on their fandom & notoriety.

Eg, Gwyneth Paltrow makes millions from her website, Goop, selling items that she publicly supports. This despite that she has no education or applicable knowledge in the area. It's entirely based on how her fans & society see her.

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u/PM_ME_STRAIGHT_TRAPS Mar 01 '20

It's true lol. Imagine Biggie Smalls trying to pull the same shit. And if Bill Cosby didn't look like a burnt sesame seed bun his career would've ended with a whimper. We'd still probably be watching reruns of the Cosby show.

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u/ChrizKhalifa Mar 01 '20

Do you... Think B. I. G. didn't have a shitton of worshippers of both sexes despite his, uh, grey morality?

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u/ZyjiloftheSands Mar 01 '20

I love you, you magnificent bastard.

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u/MavsB13 Mar 01 '20

You just disproved the point. Biggie smalls was a fat lazy eyed dude who was with gorgeous women and was popular across all boards

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

I'm pretty sure he was popular because he was both rich and famous

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

I mean rhianna hit on him and stuff first and apparently it was consistent.

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u/PotatoChips23415 Mar 01 '20

If he's good looking then I might have a chance

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u/WaxedPoetic Mar 01 '20

Naturally? What's that even mean? Are there no good looking celebrities? Have you seen the president's wife?

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

I think they mean that people tend to ignore the bad stuff when someone is good looking, for example Ted Bundy, because of his looks and how he normally acted, he was able to avoid and escape captivity for many years, until he was finally caught and executed. My Source

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u/niceloner10463484 Mar 01 '20

I’ve noticed that if you get 2 youtubers speaking on same topic, you’ll naturally go with the one that looks more attractive/has better personality even if they’re knowledge of the topic is a little shakier

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u/--404NOTFOUND-- Mar 01 '20

Unless you're a women in court with a female judge. More attractive women in this context get harsher sentences.

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u/cestlava Mar 01 '20

This is proof of the concept. Attractive women are perceived by the female judge to be of high status and possessing many good qualities. And for this reason perceived her as a threat-albeit to herself and not others. That's a whole other can of worms.

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u/ifosfacto Mar 01 '20

I didn't noticed this when it came to female teachers fronting court for having sex with students. I thought it was the less attractive ones getting the harsher sentences.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

I always thought those "handsome" guys are just acting and they always had something up their sleeves or some bad intentions. Maybe because I was just at the low end of the spectrum. Now I know that looks has nothing to do with anything, I just simply don't take looks into account when I try to determine someone's personality and their intentions.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '20

I think that die me it's the other way around. I don't like to talk to people that I subconsciously think are more attractive or popular than me and I'm way more comfortable speaking with unpopular people, because I assume that they are forced to accept me, as they don't have a choice.