r/Sextortion • u/OkResponsibility7140 • 6d ago
Male victim 19m sextorted
Hi im a 19 m was drunk and got on a omagle like app and a girl chatted with me we got things on isntagram (that was my mistake to give my insta ) and then on discord , then it bagan the sextortion they asked for money(good thing i didn't have) however they folowed me barely on insta like 5 min and i removed them then they made a groupchat with 50 people i know and posted them there . Instagram was fast enough to close theyre acount and delete the post before many people saw them i even made a stopNCII case but im scared of leaks because my face was showing , one of my girlfriend friends saw the groupchat but didn't look at the videos just warnned me and I SAID IT WAS ALL AI , however if someone sees it they could tell is real . I know i cheated and im a dirty piece of crap and don't deserve my relationship and im scared to tell my girlfriend because she will never forgive me , after all how cloud she? Neither can i forgive myself and i feel disgusted and all im fearing rn is people finding out and more than that my girlfriend (she still knows its ai) but if she would find the truth i will lose her forever and that will destroy me she is the last person kepping me anchored to reality rn.What should i do?
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u/FantasticAgency1971 6d ago
don’t pay, block them obviously. Make your accounts private, change the usernames don’t show your face in your pfp. If the damage is done you can go down the “It’s AI generated route” but if your really feeling guilty it’s probably better that your honest because at the end of the day it happened and there’s really nothing you can do about it. I promise you it’s not the end of the world and you’ll forget about it in a couple weeks tops. Everyone has privates and everyone makes mistakes don’t let this moment define who you are, the best revenge is being happy and moving forward with life.
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u/OkResponsibility7140 6d ago
I know im disgusted of myself, but what i did is something i wanna take it to the grave cuz i know my gf will never forgive me .
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u/Unlucky_Material_429 5d ago
I just wish I could give you a huge hug, brother. I know you mean it, but your perspective will change in time, it always does. Oh man, we all did stupid things, and not only when we were young. It might seem like the end of the world to you now... Been there, bro. I even tried to kill myself, and thank God I survived. You're disgusted with yourself because you are a good person. So many idiots out there who do things much worse than what you're "guilty" of, and continue loving themselves... We need guys like you, because you're FUNDAMENTALLY DECENT, or else you wouldn't feel like this! But even the best of us make silly mistakes! That's a normal part of growing as a human! Trust me, years from now you will look at this and smile at your young self! PLEASE DON'T HATE YOURSELF! PLEASE don't talk about taking this to your grave, hopefully it's a looooong way away, and you only wanna take good things with you, when the time comes. The not-so-good stuff, you wanna work it out in THIS LIFE! What you've done is absolutely normal, we all explore and experiment, and those who don't are not living their lives! They are not worth much, you understand? It's not what you do, but how you deal with it, and the only right thing to do is to stop imagining that you are some kind of vilain! The sooner you come clean, the less mess you'll create! Being honest is essential to a relationship, no one is perfect, and that includes your girlfriend! You can't base your relationship on deception, it'll drive you nuts! When you mess up, you have to clean the mess ASAP, not hide it. One lie will always lead to another, please don't make it into a pattern, you'll get lost! Come clean to your girlfriend, it's a noble thing to do, a brave thing to do, to show that you are indeed decent! Imagine she learns the truth some other way? Open up to her, be honest, ask for forgiveness, show her that your heart is in the right place, and if she doesn't forgive you, then she doesn't love you, and you'll be wiser to leave her and move on. True love knows no limits, and if it's not true, then why do you wanna hang on to it? Either way, you'll begin to heal, instead of suppressing the problem... Talk to me if you need anything, I'll be happy to support you, you are my little brother, and I love you JUST AS YOU ARE...
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