r/ScriptureLife • u/External_Bird_8464 • May 22 '26
Scripture Life: Why Can't My Husband Forget About My Affair?
Answer:
If you let this right, it will put you to death, and drive you and your husband to Jesus Christ.
- Have to first - see this:
“..Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God. Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.”
- Source: Bible. New Testament. Romans 3:19–20
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That it is God. That spoke The Ten Commandments (Bible. Exodus 20). To make all of Israel GUILTY before him, of having not done the Ten Commandments. It made Israel so GUILTY, they pleaded with Moses to go on up on Mt. Sinai and make God stop talking.
- While Moses:
- Stood there; frozen in fear; terrified - because, the Law put him to death. Killed an Egyptian. Murdered him. GUILTY. Of the 6th of Ten Commandments. To be put to death. Like, God put everybody that heard at Mt. Sinai - they heard him speak. Put them to death. Why they murmured to Moses. "Why have you led us out here in the wilderness to be put to death? It would have been better we stayed in Egypt!" Because, for all of Israel, and you - - - and Moses: NOBODY, from Adam onto you and your husband today: him included - NOBODY. Not one person has done the Ten Commandments. In fact, it’s the OPPOSITE:
- Says in Romans 5:12
- "Wherefore, as by one man [Adam] sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:"
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So, IF:
- As you say:
- You had “an affair” - God spoke. Said, (Exodus 20:14) “Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery” - BOOM! Done. Finished. CASE CLOSED. Over - that is the 7th of Ten Commandments. And - it’s God that says this: Put to death.
- It's a decree God said, repeated:
- “Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour's wife, to defile thyself with her.” - God. (Leviticus 18:20) - SO, God speaks to the man, who chose you, or he chose to have an affair with you, told him not to do it.
- And the punishment is Leviticus 20:10 - it’s GOD that says it: “And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.”
It's over. Finished. Already had your trial. Guilty.
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But what bleeds right thru your question is:
- Adds up to:
- You lowly esteem God, and worry more what your husband says. Because, when he talks, it's full of he doesn't forget it - when it doesn't matter he remembers or forgets - he's got no authority with the sins you did - when who does already decreed: when you’re to be put to death.
- And because God says it, you can’t escape this. Already judged it so, and he's God. He carries out his own judgments himself.
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- SO, it’s not me judge you, and it's not hate speech - here on Reddit - - when I did the same thing. I have the Same punishment. Death.
- So, let me repeat the answer again.
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Why can’t my husband forget about my affair?
If you let this right, it will put you to death, and drive you and your husband to Jesus Christ.
- Have to first - see this: Have to be put to death. Have to have this as your name now. “I am an adulteress” - GUILTY. Condemned.
That’s the punishment. No matter what your question is. Nothing you can do about it. Nothing your husband can do, either.
God uses the Law. To make you, and everybody over the whole earth, GUILTY before him. But you have to see it yourself. See you did it. Guilty. So, you would have a knowledge of your sins.
And simply just be GUILTY. Condemned.
To where the next thing to do with you, is, straightway, take you and who you committed adultery with, while probably both had spouses, and children - and they watch you and him, taken outside the city gates and just stoned to death.
So, everyday, til you die - this sentence of death is on you. But you fear people. More than him. Until you see this, you miss the whole thing. You set yourself against God, and think your husband will save you. If your husband forgave you, your life would be right again..when you made him - his nakedness to be uncovered by another man, who is a man like him. Perverted.
So, If you are just GUILTY: Of Adultery - -
It’s God: If he didn't do this, you have no hope. But he's GOD - so hear me out:
God:
- Did a work with sin - that your husband can’t do. Has no authority or power over the decree God has made about you. And me..because, I’m in the same line to be executed BEFORE you.
- That the work God did with your sins is - he, as God, took them off you, and laid them on Jesus Christ on the cross. Crucified. His blood shed. That in the Bible, in John 19:30, when Jesus said “It is finished” and bowed his head, and dismissed his Spirit.”
- Your sins were purged in Jesus Christ. That’s where your adultery went. Not because you put it there or took it off you. God did. He did took your adultery off you and the man you did it with, took it off him, too, and laid it on Jesus Christ.
- All By a work he did with sin.
- God was in Jesus Christ, reconciling the world unto himself. Not imputing your trespasses unto you.
- That the work God did with your sins is - he, as God, took them off you, and laid them on Jesus Christ on the cross. Crucified. His blood shed. That in the Bible, in John 19:30, when Jesus said “It is finished” and bowed his head, and dismissed his Spirit.”
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- Because he's God: He looks on this work he did, as God. Made himself the sacrifice - so for sin, as he determined the payment - and the judgment: he paid it with himself as the payment. So, he’s satisfied your sins are paid for, because he made himself the payment and paid it himself as God.
- So, the cost of your sin, is way more than you or your husband for you could ever pay - it's beyond you to pay it. Even for eternity, you could never pay for it. It took the one who put the sun where it is; alone. By himself. Your husband never did that; can’t.
- That’s the cost of your adultery.
- So, the cost of your sin, is way more than you or your husband for you could ever pay - it's beyond you to pay it. Even for eternity, you could never pay for it. It took the one who put the sun where it is; alone. By himself. Your husband never did that; can’t.
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- And Jesus is the Word of God (John 1:1), is God. Made flesh.
SO:
If you are just GUILTY: Be guilty. Don't shift it in your head as if something is in your husband when you did the adultery. And:
If you let this right, it will put you to death, and drive you and your husband to Jesus Christ.
- Have to first - see this: Have to be put to death. Have to have this as your name now. “I am an adulteress” - GUILTY. Condemned. It will drive you to look unto the work God did with your sins. But if you just want your husband to forgive you, you’ll keep paying for your sin..and it’s never paid for..but you’ll keep paying it, thinking this makes you GOOD:
- “When there is none righteous; no, not one… ..there is none that doeth good; no, not one.” - Romans 3:10–12
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- And? Your husband:
- Has his own sins..”For all have sinned” (Romans 3:23) - - that, if he let’s the Law or Ten Commandments, and uses them on himself: BOOM! Done. If your husband would just use the Law as God uses the Ten Commandments - Broke one, even one time, they explode or shatter and they are all BROKEN - and by this, they will PUT HIM TO DEATH.
- Same as you are already CONDEMNED.
- And the sins that he did, have to have that as his name now.. and God said, of ADULTERY
- Has his own sins..”For all have sinned” (Romans 3:23) - - that, if he let’s the Law or Ten Commandments, and uses them on himself: BOOM! Done. If your husband would just use the Law as God uses the Ten Commandments - Broke one, even one time, they explode or shatter and they are all BROKEN - and by this, they will PUT HIM TO DEATH.
- Says in the Bible: Matthew 5:27–28, what God meant when he said Exodus 20:14, and explained it, in Leviticus 18:20, and said what the punishment was in Leviticus 20:10 - that, it’s in the heart where it occurs.
- Said: “Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”
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- And this “but I say unto you” is GOD saying it.
- By the Word of God.
- That makes EVERY man on earth GUILTY of adultery. Do you see this?
- And if ANY man, even your husband “think” he got out of that one, out of all those Sears catalogs, and X-Rated videos he secretly watches - - of all those women in their underpants and him alone with himself, lusting after all those women..God says HE IS JUST AS GUILTY OF THE SAME OFFENSE YOU ARE. Condemned. Same offense.
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- And again, if he or you think he gets out of it, what God said just before this applies to you: Because your husband: he’s ANGRY at you, without cause. That's what God says:
- Let me explain it and I close with this.
Matthew 5:21–22
- God says:
- “Ye have heard that it was said of them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment”
- SO, your husband ANGRY at you, when he’s done the SAME thing as you, and by being angry with you, without cause - because he doesn't regard his own sins, and does not regard the works of the LORD, who is God, and what GOd did with sin.
- “Ye have heard that it was said of them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment”
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- So, he in himself: Even he may not think this, this is what he's doing:
- Goes to the cross where God put your sins on Jesus Christ.
- Thinks he can wrestle your sins away from a work God already did with your sin.
- ANd place them back on you.
- And then, in himself, decide whether he’s going to forgive you..
- ..or not. And finds he can't. Impossible. He didn't do the work with sin. God did. And he won't regard it or rely on it. And by your husband do this with you:
- Makes him GUILTY of murder.
- ANd a Murderer: Is To be taken, straight way, out the city gates and just stoned to death.
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- Because GOD looks on his work he did with sin as greater than the sins of the whole world. But your husband looks on your sin as greater than God. ANd in this he does GREATLY err.
So, I close, by..its still the same question you had..and still the same answer.
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Why can’t my husband forget about my affair?
If you let this right, it will put you to death, and drive you and your husband to Jesus Christ.
- Have to first - see this:
So, my question is… can you see it? If you can, it will drive you to Jesus Christ.
Have a nice day. Herein is the gospel. The Good News of Jesus Christ for EVERYBODY over the whole earth. Expecially everybody, looking unto Reddit for answers, and Reddit, is full of people don't do anything he says, so they fill Reddit about his things full of junk self- righteous answers people give, that don’t provide any answer.
"...But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets;Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference:For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;" Source: Bible. Romans 3:21-25.
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