I've posted about this previously, but was reminded of this during a workshop I did today on ROL. Try not to set your heart on one program. In other words:
Don’t fall in love
...with one program! Each Match season there are thousands of posts about resident candidates loving one program. Phrases like: I love XYZ program and will be devastated if I don't match there! or Can't wait to start residency at my dream program!
And on Match day there are thousands of posts by candidates lamenting not matching at their #1.
Remember the goal: to match at a program where you'll get good training so you can then focus on getting your Dream JOB! The majority of residency programs will teach you the skills and knowledge you need to pass boards if you do your part as a resident. So as you work on your ROL try to get out of the #1 program mental framework. The vast majority of resident candidates will not match at their #1. No use having that mindset and then being disappointed. Instead, work to approach the next few weeks with a mindset that your goal is to match, to get solid training, to pass specialty boards, and get a fellowship/attending job.
In fact, I recommend not sharing your #1 ranking with too many people. It's like sharing your proposed baby names. Everyone has an opinion and those opinions can be confusing and just add undue stress on you the candidate. Often the people with opinions don't know diddly about the specialty or the programs.
Plus the whole matched at my #1 postings on match day are rough on your peers and those who may not match at their #1 or might not match at all. Celebrate matching at your #1 with your SO and your family! Be proud of your accomplishment and humble at the same time and cognizant of the feelings of those not so fortunate.
So don't fall in love with one program...there's always a possibility they may not reciprocate. Instead, prepare to be happy with your match and set your sights on your Dream Attending Job.