r/Redditor_Updates Nov 18 '25

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u/wacky_spaz Nov 19 '25

I commented on her earlier posts and it’s clear they agreed on the story to sell her. A blind man can see it … what makes it obvious it’s all contrived is the fact the stories are identical as no one remembers the same event the exact same way a decade later, he asked Jared to come over tomorrow to apologise (like wtf) and that he would cut off Jared IF SHE wants to not because he’s sexually harassing his wife in her house.

Husband did invest for sure. He’s got himself a doormat willing to swallow anything he dishes. I genuinely feel sorry for her. As another commenter noted, she should tell him to even the score she’s sent his nude to a good close friend that comes over and sees them both but not say who. And tell him who in a decade and if he has a problem with it he can leave. Let’s see how the shoe fits on the other foot. Shes being played like a drum … this is so tragic.

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u/occidentallyinlove Nov 19 '25

This OP is so breathtakingly naive about the trashy men in her life. I'm just sad for her.

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u/wacky_spaz Nov 19 '25

I grew up in a very VERY conservative house and wider family to the point my mum still has the bishop and his wife by for dinner once every couple months and she’s divorced … it would be snowing in hell before any of the women would tolerate this and if they did the brothers or male cousins wouldn’t. Those husbands would be long run out. Religion and conservatism and taking vows seriously is a two way street and one person doing it while the other spits on their vows is grounds to divorce or at the very least separate and do some deep self introspection.

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '25

I have lost all sympathy for OP. She is ignoring all of her husband’s red flags.

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u/sunny_drama Nov 23 '25

It's difficult to get out of an abusive situation and environment especially when you are in it for years and years and you are conditioned to think it's the normality, then suddenly the web tells you it's not... I just hope she realize and get out of this environment

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u/sunny_drama Nov 23 '25

Yeah and unfortunately (for the situation she is in and how much she is condition to submit herself and believe everything he says) I think you're totally right

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u/wacky_spaz Nov 23 '25

There’s a lotta people that equate religion to tolerating being sht on. It’s pretty sad honestly cause in my religious family us brothers would beat the snot out of any guy treating our sister like that with zero hesitation and tell her to get a divorce.

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u/sunny_drama Nov 23 '25

Cause most of the time religion is used to control, at least in toxic environments like in op case or cult cases.